"O times, o manners!" - such a phrase can often be heard from older people who discuss the life, appearance and habits of young people in general and modern girls in particular. And although this popular expression came to us from Ancient Rome, its relevance has not diminished. Surely in the future, just like now, like thirty and fifty years ago, grandmothers, sitting on benches at the entrances, will consider the generation of young girls to be more dissolute and less developed. Is this really so, and what are modern girls like?
Difficulties of a generation
Now, on the threshold of the twenties of the 21st century, girls born in the late 1990s, after the collapse of the USSR, are entering a young, beautiful time. The period of a country's life in which a generation is born is also of considerable importance. The reforms that have taken place in education, the absence of Soviet ideology and the destruction of former values largely determine the generation of modern girls and boys.
Yes, and the world around us does not stand still: television, glossy magazines, the world of social networks that arose inearly 2000s, form certain personality traits, sometimes not the most noble and he althy, both physically and morally. Many temptations promoted by the media and the Internet can play a cruel joke on the fate of the mentally fragile personality of a modern girl.
In order for a girl not to become a hostage of the (supposedly) ideal proportions of the body or the image of her idol, she must understand that she needs to perceive herself as she really is, find her own line of behavior, style and not strive to be on anyone something similar. Parental disinterested and sincere love, reading high-quality literature, a good education and occupation for the soul will help a lot in this.
About modern girls
Recently, very often only negative responses can be heard about young people. Men and young people say that the essence of modern girls lies in the consumer attitude towards others, they have become less economic, they think about how it is profitable to get married, they easily reshape their appearance to the same standards. In short, according to many, some modern girls (photos are presented in the article) have a “shallowed” soul or it doesn’t exist at all.
As there is no smoke without fire, so such judgments are not groundless. Indeed, there are such representatives of the weaker sex, and there are many of them. But do all modern girls lack a soul? Of course, this is absolutely not true. If you meet such a girl, then know that the wrong values \u200b\u200bare hammered into her head, and soin time, she will understand that there is nothing better than sincere feelings and simple beauty. In the genetic code of every girl lies the desire to become a mother and homemaker. Perhaps the time has not yet come for these fair sexes to realize this.
After all, as life shows, all the implanted stereotypes of a beautiful picture of a glamorous life over time can only lead to loneliness and spiritual emptiness. Although it sounds trite, not everything is measured in money. Values such as love, family, friendship and the warmth of sincere feelings will always be eternal. And the sooner a girl understands this, the better for her. Ideally, these principles should be conveyed to the girl by her parents from early childhood.
Self-development
To become interesting not only for others and guys, but also to fill your life with content, it is very important for a modern girl to engage in self-development.
From active activities for self-development, you can choose yoga, sports, visiting the pool or modern dances for girls. Such types of self-development will not only improve the appearance of a young lady, tone her muscles, but will also cheer her up. The existing types of modern dances for girls are very diverse. It can be complex strip plastic, classical choreography, street dancing, Latin American, etc. You just need to listen to yourself, understand what kind of music you like, and choose the direction of modern dance. Despite your physical training, in a few months you will be surprised at your abilities.
Various hobbies related to needlework, visits and classes in creative workshops will also bring satisfaction, develop creative abilities, and, if necessary, help in choosing a profession. In addition to cutting and sewing courses, these can be cooking classes, makeup courses, learning a foreign language, etc. The main thing is that these classes are fun.
It is very important to pay attention to spiritual self-development and personal growth. Visiting theatrical events, exhibitions and museums, as well as reading the works of literary classics will correctly form the soul of a modern lady, instill good taste and help determine life guidelines. However, here it will be necessary to make an effort to choose really high-quality literature, since now there are a lot of cheap tabloid books that do not carry anything useful, but only kill time.
Finding my own style
Every modern girl strives to be fashionable. But fashion cannot be universal for everyone: this or that thing is definitely suitable for someone, but it absolutely does not look on the other girl. And this is good, because otherwise there would not be such diversity in our world. So, you need to look for your own fashionable style, a direction in clothes that would correspond not only to external data, but also to the girl’s lifestyle, her preferences.
At the beginning of the search for your own style of a modern girl, you need to gain theoretical knowledge, look through magazines, find out fashion trends. But there is no need to blindly copy images. Just take notecombination of colors, style or detail of the image.
To choose clothes that will suit you, you need to take into account the features of the figure, your color type, that is, what colors suit you - warm, if your skin is golden, swarthy or peach; and cold - for girls with fair, transparent skin. By the way, Russian girls (due to the harsh climate), for the most part, have a cold beauty.
Consider carefully your figure in the mirror, taking into account all its features. It is important to remember that almost any flaw in the figure can be turned into a virtue, presented as a highlight in the appearance of a girl. Give preference to clothes in size that will be comfortable and convenient, which means you can feel more confident in it.
Shopping smart
To look stylish and not look like anyone, it is not necessary to buy expensive branded items and shoes. Undoubtedly, clothes should be of decent quality and meet fashion trends. Fortunately, there are quite a lot of shops with high-quality and inexpensive clothes for every taste and size.
For clothes shopping, it is important to take your time and set aside enough time, perhaps more than one day. Choose several models, do not be afraid to take a long fitting room. And it’s better to have a faithful friend nearby, or even two, who could adequately evaluate the outfit. If you don’t know where to start, then pick up 3-4 basic classic style items. It is important that they can be combined with each other. You can always diversify them with fashionableadditions. The more restrained the basic clothing is, the brighter accessories and additions can be. This will draw attention to the image and make it fashionable. And vice versa, the brighter things are, the more restrained you need to complement them, or even not use decorations at all.
Conciseness and simplicity are the friends of stylish modern girls. Try not to overload the image by wearing all the best at once. Use accessories and decorations in moderation and to the place. It is also important to observe neatness, neatness in clothes. If the fabric requires ironing, do not be lazy to do it, and your neat image will please not only those around you, but also you in the mirror.
Girl environment
Beautiful modern girls and around them create a beautiful stylish environment. This desire is understandable. The vocation to decorate the interior, make the living space cozy and its design in modern girls is formed in early childhood.
Don't assume that a girl's room should only be done in pink. This stereotype is fading away. The room of a modern girl must meet many requirements. This is the main place for studying and hobbies, meeting with friends, relaxing and sleeping. How to meet all these features in a modern girl's room?
First you need to decide on the general style of the interior, which must be taken into account, based on lifestyle and preferences. A romantic and dreamy girl will prefer the gentle style of French Provence, a "tear-off" who loves rock, will choose a modern style of glam rock, a practical ladymight like the Japanese minimalist style, etc.
Having decided on the modern style of a room for a girl, it will be useful to divide the room into functional zones. The study area or vanity area is best placed closer to the window, as these processes require daylight. If space allows, it is better to put a bed in the center, and hang a TV on the opposite wall. If the room is small, it is better to use a transforming sofa, where you can sit with your friends when assembled.
But the main place in the room of a modern girl belongs to the wardrobe. You need to choose it carefully, providing comfortable and roomy shelves. In extreme cases, you can use the services of firms engaged in the manufacture of furniture to order. Such a company will help you make a comfortable closet and not clutter up the space.
Modern Girl's Day
In the crazy stream of modern life, we all do not have enough time, and especially girls can miss it. How to manage everything and find time for the above searches for style, self-care, self-development, relationships with a loved one, combine all this with study or work?
In order not to be in constant stress due to chronic time pressure, you need to plan your day in advance by making a list of specific tasks. And you will be pleasantly surprised that you manage to carve out 30-40 minutes for yourself, or even more. Spend it on a trip to the gym, a date with your loved one, a beauty salon, or reading a good book. Notit is worth chatting on the phone with a friend or hanging out in social networks. Spend your precious time to your advantage.
When going to the store, a pre-compiled list of products and goods will help save time. In addition, such a list will save your budget from unnecessary expenses. Time management tips can be taken into account.
What a girl should be like
Probably, every generation has disputes about what a modern girl should be like in order to meet the requirements of current life. It is impossible to answer this question unequivocally, but there are several unshakable rules, answering which, a girl will be modern at all times.
First of all, it is the mind. The presence of mind and erudition never hurts. This is surprising, but the well-read and educated girl is read in her eyes, makes her look beautiful and attractive to men and others.
Commitment to a he althy lifestyle. He althy lifestyle is now at the peak of popularity. Giving up smoking, alcohol, consuming low-fat he althy food and attending sports training is the main trend of modern life for both boys and girls.
The next rule is beauty and grooming. A well-groomed appearance is sure to bring you beauty and a sense of confidence. One is impossible without the other.
A modern girl should be punctual and respect the time of other people who will definitely appreciate it. Politeness and knowledge of etiquette will not interfere either.
Other inner traits a girl must have are kindness andsympathy. These are one of the main human feelings that help make the cruel modern world a better place. Unfortunately, many modern girls do not consider it necessary to show kindness, sympathy and care.
Femininity is also important. Feminism did not solve all women's problems, but, on the contrary, added. Men and guys do not like overly feminized girls. As many great people said, the strength of a woman is in her weakness. Femininity should be present in a girl both in external style (feminine images should be preferred) and in behavior (a soft and wise girl will always be appreciated).
Types of girls
Throughout life, a woman is destined to try on several roles. They may change in accordance with the change of life periods, or they may not change if the woman is satisfied with everything. Consider a few vivid portraits of girls' characters. Perhaps their description will be exaggerated, so do not take them too seriously:
- Athlete girl. This lady prefers a sporty style of clothing, never misses a workout at the fitness center. He easily agrees to go skating and skiing in winter, and to ride a bicycle for several kilometers in summer. Her smartphone is sure to have a pedometer and applications for exercising at home. In food, he prefers boiled chicken breast and protein shakes.
- Intellectual girl. A lover of prose and poetry, as well as the Kultura TV channel, she loves visiting museums and exhibitions. Such a modern girl in films prefers the old classics, you can’t lure her into watchingnovelties. She does not know about many modern things, perhaps she does not even have a page on social networks. She will be very surprised that you do not know the works of Kant, and may stop communicating with you after that.
- Glamorous girl. Knows all fashion trends. Reads, or rather looks through, only gloss. Before going to the store for bread, he can apply makeup for two hours. Devotes one day a week to a trip to a beauty salon. Periodically sits on diets. In her house, her own photos of such a modern girl are hung around.
- And also - a friend girl, a party girl, a cook girl, a business girl … And many other types of modern girls. You do not need to classify yourself or your friend as any pure type. Every modern woman can combine several types, several roles.
Girls in relationships
Relationships of modern guys and modern girls sometimes do not add up due to many factors. The young lady may not like that the guy devotes too much time to computer games, he, for example, may not like endless diets, constant selfie photos of a modern girl, and so on. But still, what can be girls in a relationship? Here are some examples:
- Bitch girl. Does not put in anything not only a man, but also other people around. Always acts in her own way and is very self-serving. Fortunately, this type is rare, although many impose it. This behavior of a girl is fraught with her loneliness.
- Mother girl. She is very caring, sometimes even unnecessarily, will often worry about herman. She always has order in the house and dinner on the stove. But now, having thoroughly washed the floors, sometimes he forgets to take off his dressing gown and put himself in order. The danger here is not only that such a lady will cease to be attractive in the eyes of her chosen one. A guy can get used to doing nothing, some even stop working and just sit at home with everything ready. Of course, this situation is unacceptable.
- Jealous girl. Calls her man, despite the fact that he asks not to call in the middle of the working day. Checks the phone and pages in social networks. If he cannot check them, he thinks that the man is definitely unfaithful. With such a girl, a trip to any public place ends in a quarrel, because she does not like the way he looked at this or that representative of the weaker sex.
- Very romantic. It is easy for such a girl to make surprises, the main thing is that they be romantic. Even congratulating a modern girl on her birthday, you can give her a flower from a city flower bed and observe the night starry sky. The main thing is to remember the date of acquaintance, first kiss, first date and so on. Romantic ladies can be touchy, but next to an attentive man they are truly happy.
In conclusion
Of course, in dealing with guys, ladies can be different, and these are not all types of girls in a relationship. Moreover, very, very much depends on the fact which man the young lady caught. With guys who do not appreciate their loved ones, girls prefer not to start relationships, do not like egoists and womanizers, but they are smart, kind and purposefulyoung men attract many of the fair sex. In addition, we must remember that love can work wonders, many people change under its influence.
