We all choose our style of communication and behavior. Everyone has their own reasons for this, as well as their goals. But there is something that unites us all. What everyone wants is respect. This is one of the most significant factors for each of us. We respect some people and expect that they will treat us with respect.
And how often do our expectations coincide with reality? Most likely not the way you would like. Respect is something to strive for.
First and foremost, your respect for yourself. Think for yourself. Would you respect a person who doesn't love himself? Of course not. For what? They respect for the good, positive, distinctive in a person, and it is very difficult to notice such qualities in people who do not value themselves.
Every bond we have has something good, something that makes us different from the rest. If you come home from work every day and feel overwhelmed and dissatisfied with life, you should think about the need for change. Don't change anything drastically right away. Just stop and think about what gives you pleasure, what makes you happy, and what makes you feel alive. Make a habit of pampering yourself and giving yourself a break. Show yourself some respect. This will serve wellWe will help you to become a self-sufficient person. A solid appearance, certainly suitable for the time and place, will also be important.
The second rule is considered to be the need to respect others. It's the need. Respect everyone you do business with in order to gain respect. This is very important to always remember. Everyone deserves respect. Every person has something for which he can be respected. If you can't find that quality in any of the people you meet, it's worth considering that we are all worthy of respect simply because we are Humans. We were all born and raised by our mothers not to be treated disrespectfully. Yes, and do not want to think that we are dealing with unworthy people. So the people around us should be worthy of respect.
Be confident. Do not be afraid to defend your point of view, take the initiative and, if necessary, engage in self-promotion. We are often too afraid of judgment or ridicule. There is no need to be afraid of what may not be. You must believe in yourself and strive to be listened to and reckon with your opinion. Here I would like to add one more point. It is sometimes very difficult for each of us to refuse someone. We are often asked for help that is harmful or simply not useful for work, image or personal time. It is necessary to clearly and firmly abandon the habit of yielding to everyone. Learn to answer "NO". Rags are not respected.
If you know exactly what you want from life and have a clear plan,how to achieve this, you will instantly move into a privileged circle of purposeful people. Knowing this, you will be able, without fear, to take the initiative and offer your help in projects that are interesting to you. Of course, you will meet all of the above points. People with no purpose will admire you. And that means you finally got respect. This is important for everyone.
