Often the events in our lives do not happen at all according to the scenario in which we would like it to be. When things go against all our expectations, we are, of course, left disappointed. If these events are related to a specific person, everything becomes even sadder.
Everyone has their own truth
Situations that you predicted as simple and predictable suddenly happen completely wrong, all moves are mixed up and nothing depends on you. The worst thing is that it is completely incomprehensible what prompted a fairly close person to do just that. Subsequently, you can guess something, assume something, but you won’t be able to find out for sure. The only method is to ask the person himself why exactly, and not as you expected, he acted. Although there is a possibility that he will never tell the truth. Or he will, but his truth will go against yours, which will leave you completely at a loss.
Agree, quite often in our lives such situations occur. We will never be able to understand them simply because the truth is a rather ephemeral and indefinite concept.
The concept of "truth" in philosophy
Russian- this is perhaps the only language in which such concepts as "truth" and "truth" are separated in their meaning. For example, the true universal truth and the personal beliefs of a person in our language have a different meaning. How do scientists interpret the concept of "truth"? The definition in philosophy tells us that it is a "commandment", "promise", "vow", "rule". And if many from time immemorial have been trying to challenge the truth and remake it to fit their beliefs, then truth is a more stable and undeniable concept. At the same time, few people think that the essence of these words is the same. In semantics, the concept of "truth" and "truth" can also mean "peace" in the sense of a divine contract with humanity, in turn, "break the world" - transgress divine laws.
Friedrich Nietzsche had a completely different point of view on this matter. He argued: “Truth is the same lie, only herd, which continues to exist even when our existence no longer has it.” That is, if a large number of people accept a lie as true, then it ceases to be a lie. He also argued that "every person who uses colloquial speech inevitably lies, and in human society the truth is an erased metaphor."
Truth - what is it?
No person can be objective by virtue of their beliefs, bias or subjectivity - this is the truth. In any dispute with an opponent, each of the parties is sure that they are right, which, by definition, excludes the possibility of the existence of a single correct point of view. How many people - so manycorrect opinions. If for the definition of truth, for example, in religion, science and modern technologies there are at least some undeniable standards, then for the concept of "truth" the definition can be very vague and ephemeral.
Your truth is a lie for others
The wisest thing to do in this situation is to decide not to have any convictions at all and never get involved in arguments, never try to get to the bottom of the truth in situations where, in your opinion, you have been treated unfairly. Unfortunately, this is impossible, the essence of a person is such that he needs to have certain life principles and attitudes, while being absolutely sure of their truth. But at the same time, it should be clearly understood that it is simply impossible for us to understand the motives and beliefs of another person. And trying to prove your truth to someone is useless and ungrateful. You should just try to accept the people around you, and the world as a whole, with all their oddities and incomprehensibility. Do not try to impose your opinion and prove your truth to someone. Remember that your truth is the same lie in the eyes of others.