Language occupies an incomparable, special place in our life. In fact, it is he who determines the model of our worldview. Thanks to him, certain concepts are fixed in the mind, which now and then pop up when a particular reality is mentioned.
However, sooner or later we find ourselves in a situation of incomplete understanding. It would seem that quite ordinary, often used words suddenly cause confusion and doubt. Their meaning suddenly slips away, seems incomplete and indirect.
Take, for example, the word "charm". What does it mean for us? By what criteria do we consider a person before using this concept in relation to him? Let's talk about it in more detail.
Traditional understanding
Most often this word is associated with the fair sex. In the understanding of a modern person, the adjective "charming" is a kind of synonym for the words "sweet", "beautiful", "attractive", but in reality it often turns out that a girl does not have any obvious external virtues at all, but in a different way aboutshe can't tell.
Following the footsteps of Soviet cinema
We all remember the heroine of Irina Muravyova in the film "The Most Charming and Attractive". After all, there was nothing in her that could be compared with standard beauty, however, radiant eyes, a kind smile and a very special character simply fell in love with the audience in a simple girl who went in search of happiness.
Maybe charming is charismatic? A sort of inner beauty, the ability to win over, inspire trust and find a common language with everyone and everyone?
I look after her, there's nothing in her…
So, by the method of elimination, we come to the conclusion that charming is not always beautiful. Rather, in this case, the comparison with charm is applicable, but if you look at the composition of this word, you cannot help but notice a clear reference to something magical, magical and mysterious. Maybe this is the very criterion of charm? Some kind of magical power lurking inside and hiding under the mask of naturalness?
Typical ladies
If you conduct something like a comparative analysis, you will notice that a charming girl is almost always an open, kind and gentle girl. There is never any discomfort or tension with her, as if with her presence she complements the world, making it especially beautiful.
Such women are always interesting, because they personify a mystery that is unlikely to be completely solved.
It seemsif a girl is charming and sweet, she is simply not capable of dirty tricks, envy and other negative things that, unfortunately, today's world abounds in. Such people want to trust almost immediately upon meeting, and over time, this desire only grows stronger and gains strength.
Childish spontaneity
Besides, if you face the truth, there is no denying the fact that charming girls tend to have a certain childishness. Of course, they don't necessarily play football or pull each other's pigtails. Rather, they have a light, barely perceptible touch of infantilism, giving that very charm that is almost impossible to resist.
Their charming smile disarms almost immediately, conquering most often with cute dimples on the cheeks and lively facial expressions in general. And sometimes just a sonorous voice and a burst of laughter are enough to forever settle down with this or that person.
Of course, the word "charming" for everyone has its own connotation and is perceived by everyone quite subjectively. Different people understand it a little differently, but the general concept is quite simple and obvious to everyone. Such a person cannot be confused with anyone in the crowd, however, as well as finding a second one is impossible. Who knows, maybe the secret of charm is uniqueness? Or maybe in a certain zodiac sign?
In fact, no psychological, sociological or any other study will give a complete answer to this question. Our lives are full of mysterieswhich will never be able to unravel, which, of course, is for the best. Just one of these miracles can be called that most incomprehensible, ephemeral, but at the same time so obvious female charm …
