Didn't they tell you as a child: “Well, why are you frowning? Smile!”, And you are still detached, from under your forehead examined the world around you, hanging on your mother’s hand. Everything is extremely simple: a gloomy look betrays your mood and facial expression. Often we notice smiles on the faces of interlocutors. Friendly and warm - it is able to cause a positive reaction to a smiling person, it can express understanding and sympathy, emphasize sarcasm or discontent. You can't imagine how many kinds of smiles there are and what different meanings they have.
Psychologists have repeatedly noted that by a smile you can find out not only the mood of a person, but also his character, and inclinations, and personality type. Unconsciously, each of us can distinguish between a “sarcasm” smile and “I’m so glad to see you”, but this is only a small fraction of all types of smiles and their meanings in psychology.
In this article, you will learn what most smiles mean, and you can easily evaluate the reaction of your interlocutors to you and others.
Sincerity
You thought that the mansmiling at you, somehow unfriendly, insincere with you? In most cases, it is. Our subconscious independently evaluates a smile, facial expressions, curves and gives a signal of sincerity. Distinguishing a forced smile, according to psychologists, is very simple. Pay attention to the muscles of the mouth and the movement of the eyes. Of course, we can pull on a smile, but running pupils are difficult to control, especially at the moment of lies or insincerity. With a sincere smile, the muscles of the mouth stretch, corners form, teeth are exposed, and the eyes narrow, forming wrinkles. A sincere smile is always honest because it occurs automatically and unconsciously.
The insincere “smile” is asymmetrical, most often one side is more curved than the other, the eyes do not narrow. If a person smiles only with his lips, he is dishonest with you. You can see this kind of smile in the photo when the photographer asks to smile or says "cheese".
Thus, to find out if a smile is sincere, it is enough to pay attention to the eyes. Be careful with this type of smile: if the fake “smile” is too wide, due to the raised cheeks, you might think that the eyes have become narrower. In this case, pay attention to the symmetry and eyebrows, a sincere smile lowers the tips of the eyebrows.
32 smile or pursed lips
Open or closed smile - the most obvious and extremely simple classification. The type of smile depends on the temperament of the individual, on the atmosphere in which communication takes place. Someone smiles only with lips, and someone in all his32 teeth. It is difficult to tell about a certain mood by such a smile; rather, such a classification will help determine the temperament of the person talking to you.
Most often, people who don't bare their teeth are the control type. This type is stingy with emotions, more often suppresses them until they disappear completely. Such smiles are more often mistaken for a contemptuous grimace than a sign of sincere sympathy for you. Such trust, a priori, is not worth it. Have you noticed that the person carrying on a conversation with you pours promises with pursed lips? Know that he is unlikely to be sincere, most likely, he is talking to you for his own benefit.
The opposite type of people, with an open smile, are more sincere, relaxed next to you. He is sensitive, knows how to win over. You can easily trust such people, but do not forget how to distinguish sincerity, because there are plenty of open fakes. Eyes will help you, a sincere open smile is accompanied by glowing, joyful eyes.
Mechanical
The next type of smile is mechanical, the person, on the contrary, purses his lips; wrinkles and folds in the corners are pronounced. The more often the interlocutor uses it, the more it looks like a grimace, a frozen mask without a bit of emotion.
Since smiling is an indicator of your mood, be careful. The mechanical expression of the lips repels the interlocutor, causes distrust and the feeling that such a grimace is about to turn into a grin.
Smile with eyes
Indeed, the eyes are the mirror of the soul. In the eyes you canread almost minds; at least our pupils are a good indicator of lies and truth. A smile with the eyes indicates that a person is free, relaxed, balanced, he does not hide anything under the mask. To learn how to smile like this yourself, free yourself from negative emotions, throw out bad thoughts, regret or anger, feel freedom and independence next to the interlocutor.
Perfect smile
The next kind of smile belongs to more TV stars. A smile with teeth for show suggests that a person is possibly selfish, he goes ahead, always achieves everything he wants, and in most cases is devoid of moral principles. Hollywood smile is like a trademark, beware of such people.
Smile on the clasp
Do you know how to distinguish a modest person in a conversation? Among the various types of smiles, this one is the most accurate. Please note that the opponent's lips are zipped up, he does not show his teeth, only his lips are stretched. This smile of a shy person, he is a little insecure, prone to depression, does not intervene once again in a conversation, reserved and never interrupts.
Half smile
Most often it is taken as a sign of contempt and a little mistaken. Such a smile speaks, rather, of arrogance. This species belongs to manipulators and seducers, one of the most dangerous types.
Would you like to know something about yourself? Smile! First with the left corner of the lips, then with the right. Which of the corners looks more natural to you. The left is talking aboutthat you are a mocker, and also you are prone to spontaneously arising emotions. This is because the left half belongs to the hemisphere responsible for our emotions.
And the right corner says that you, comrade, are a cynic! Cynics are tougher, they are often able to notice in the interlocutor all his shortcomings, often fueled by bitterness. They are not enthusiastic, they avoid entertainment. But they have excellent resistance against frustration.
Baby smile
This kind of smile can also be called naive. Pay attention if your interlocutor sends you such a smile. It clearly shows the trace of a child's soul. Probably, such a smile can be put on a par with a sincere, childishly warm one. A naive smile can brighten up a gray mood, reduce the intensity of passions, hide from anxiety.
Unfortunately, people with a naive smile are easily manipulated, they are very impressive, childishly gullible and compassionate.
Distracted smile
The smile is clearly aloof. If this is addressed to you, be sure that you are considered lower in rank and listen to you as if doing a favor. You are lenient and show it with a slight, distracted smile.
Sad
Smiling is a mood indicator, as has been said more than once, and our mind controls our lips. A sad smile looks romantic, however, it can repel you for some doom in it or say that you are bored with your interlocutor.
Smile fleeting
A smile, or even a grin, can be of a different nature: both positive and negative. A smile of encouragement or with bitterness and regret. This view can easily lead the interlocutor into confusion and unsettle. Pay attention to whether such a smile appears on the face of your interlocutor before you show all your cards to him.
Protective smile
Have you noticed this kind of smile on yourself? When you enter a room with a completely unfamiliar or unfamiliar company. You do not know what to talk about with them, you are a little shy. Such a smile helps to get closer, soften someone else's aggression and is a good reassurance.
Provocation
A smile with a provocative character differs from all others very simply, by the look. Most often, the head is slightly lowered and the opponent looks at everything frowningly. In women, such a smile is very sensual, with a touch of lust. Although in men this type of smile is read much stronger. She can also be called flirtatious. Recognizing this type, be sure you are interested.
Smile
Remember that your smile is not only an indicator of your mood, but also a powerful weapon that will help you more than once in later life.
A smile will help seduce, attract, win over, and repel. A real smile seems to light up your face. A pleasant curve of the lips, slightly bared teeth will help express your feelings and impressions.
Hone your charming smile with a variety of exercises and gymnastics for the muscles of the face (psychotonicgymnastics). By exercising, exercising your muscles and learning the meanings of different types of smiles, you will become the owner of not only the most charming, sincere and disposing smile, but also get your hands on a weapon that can work better than hypnosis. This gymnastics is very simple and very useful.
This is such an entertaining psychology and types of smiles. No matter how many variations of smiles exist, remember that if you want to win over a person, use only a sincere, friendly smile: they are the most friendly, seductive and warm.
We believe that in the future you will need knowledge about the types of smiles and their meanings, with them you will easily determine the hidden reactions of people, learn to win over yourself. Smile more often, only sincerely.