Kid is a term that is quite popular today, but not everyone understands what semantic load it carries. Before trying to understand the meaning of this expression, as well as the appropriateness of its use in each specific case, I would like to plunge into history a little. So, the word "kid" firmly entered the lexicon in the early 30s of the last century. Its origin is closely connected with places not so remote - this is prison slang. To date, there are two versions of the appearance of this term. We will talk about them in more detail.
Jewish version
The origin of the word "kid" is associated with the Jewish people. This is probably the most common, but at the same time quite offensive version for real boys. It is to her that most linguists of our country are inclined. So, she says that the word "kid" comes from a common Jewish swear word "pots". From Yiddish, it translates as "penis." It is with this word that many experts associate the term "poten",which later transformed into a more familiar sound for Russians - "kid". This is a verbal personification of an underdeveloped genital organ. Do you still want to proudly wear the title of a real kid?
This term became widespread thanks to Odessa thieves, as they began to call inexperienced, young thieves and street children.
Ukrainian version
Some linguists believe that "kid" is a word of Ukrainian origin that has nothing to do with Jews. It is derived from the exclamation "pats-pats" - this is how pigs are called in Ukraine. What is a boy in Ukrainian? It turns out that this is a person who most often communicates with pigs, that is, the swineherd is just the very real kid.
Which version is correct, everyone decides for himself.
Modern times
What is a "kid" in the modern sense? Nowadays, many boys dream of proudly wearing the title of "real tough kid", the word itself carries a special meaning. Today, a kid is not the one who wears jeans, a cool jacket and a hat, he is a representative of the yard subculture, a guy who lives according to the laws of the street and concepts. What are "concepts"? This is a word from prison jargon, which is a set of certain unwritten rules and norms that were invented by prisoners for existence in a confined space.
How to be a real kid
Sofinally, we come to the main question: how to be a real kid? What needs to be done in order to gain authority among the yard boys? If you understand the essence of the concept, a clear picture should appear in front of you, it remains only to understand what actions need to be taken.
- Daring, adventurous deeds - try to do bold, courageous deeds that make you step over your ambitions and an overwhelming sense of fear: stand up for a weak classmate, a girl you like.
- Style - a real kid should not be "sleek", and should not resemble a crime boss. The ideal option is a short haircut, wide trousers, a flight jacket and berets. If you use perfume, give preference to bold, rough aromas - aromas of real men. If we talk about modern guys, they try to dress as brutally as possible, wanting to emphasize their masculinity, confidence.
- Sport - be sure to sign up for a rocking chair, rough, masculine. Martial arts will be an excellent alternative, but it is better to combine everything together. So you will gain self-confidence, strength, you will rotate in the company of the same guys, over time you will win their respect.
The hardness of the word - probably heard the expression: "the boy said - the boy did." It contains the whole point. So, and you must become true to your word and your convictions, have your own opinion
Summing up
Definitely the word"kid" has a prison origin, but in the modern sense, in order to bear this title, it is not at all necessary to sit at bus stops, frightening passers-by. Now it is no longer fashionable to offend the weak, to attack them, imposing their own concepts. Try to adopt only the best from this term and bring it into your life. Today, only a brave, strong, decent young man can count on the title of a real kid.
Many experts are sure that soon the fashion for "real boys" will pass, after a while no one will remember their existence. It is not fashionable to have a term behind you today. Look around: many criminals have gone into business, become patrons of the arts, allocate huge amounts of money to charity. Here is a clear confirmation of the current trend. The once attractive mass of gopniks will become a mass of ordinary inhabitants with base and petty-bourgeois concepts that no one will need or be interested in.
So decide for yourself whether you need this status - the title of a real kid. Maybe it's better to be a decent, responsible and empathetic person with your own values?