"I like your smell" - just such seemingly simple words from a woman's lips can literally blow up a man. It seems to be something animalistic, an invisible connection that cannot be built with flowers, candy and going to the movies. If a woman does not like the smell of a man, then this cannot be solved with perfume. That is why it is important to look for not just a partner, but a completely comparable person, whom even the usual aroma of the body will plunge into ecstasy. This is laid down at the level of chemical bonds, biology, and therefore it is extremely important in relationships. The smell of a beloved man is what a girl wakes up with, lives with and goes to bed, so it must be perfect.
Why is the scent so powerful?
Why is the smell of a man or a woman so important to a person? Why are any changes in the choice of perfume almost always felt immediately? Anthropologist Annick Le Guerre believes that the answer to this question is the specificity of urban life. Where does the toilet of any person begin? Shower, talcum powder, deodorant, cologne, if necessary - powder. All this is createdwith the sole purpose of creating the perfect look. However, the resulting picture is literally an empty place for a person to smell. The nose has lost its key role in life, and therefore is practically not needed by a modern person.
What does this mean in practice
Given that the smell of sweat can shock an ordinary resident of a metropolis, it hardly makes sense to talk about giving up at least the most "heavy" perfumes. Anthropologists believe that the specificity of the definition of "one's own" person, which was available thanks to animal instincts, is reliably dormant. You can wake her up, but it is unlikely that every second person will do this. A completely different question is personal relationships, a house where a person remains himself. A place where he can get rid of the mask. If the smell of a man's body is unpleasant for a woman, will he really always wear perfume? Every day several times? It might be worth changing partners. After all, even the usual smell of skin in one person causes rejection, but it makes another gently touch his lips to the neck.
The slumbering beast
The influence of pheromones on sexuality cannot be underestimated. The smell of a man or woman during sex, the aroma of intimate secretions or sweat can turn a person on if he can smell it. Sexologists advocate pure sexual intercourse: no perfume, body balm, strawberry-scented condoms, and sometimes smelly scented candles. Hardly in a bedroom filled withscents of sandalwood so that your eyes water, you can tune in to an intimate atmosphere and indulge in real, wild and animal sex. Even the cleanest girls will admit that on some occasions a huge, sweaty male turns them on, while in real life they prefer a smartly dressed intellectual.
Why it's important to be natural
"Relationships built on a foundation of lies can hardly stand the wind" - a real cliché, but not without rationality. Carefully building his image, choosing a fragrance, dressing in the latest fashion, a person always runs the risk of falling face down in front of a lady if he gets up the next morning without all this toilet. He was looking for a partner for the created illusion of a person, but not for himself. No, this does not mean at all that you just need to throw out the deodorant, especially if the temperature reaches 40 degrees in summer. However, it is simply necessary to be natural as often as possible. Be nearby. And then the smell of a man for a woman will become synonymous with calmness, stability, protection. It was the real fragrance, not the perfume that cost a fortune.
What should cologne be like?
Choose your own fragrance so that it complements the real nature, but does not overlap it, it is extremely difficult. It is important to decide on the aroma, intensity, duration, and refuse a cheap deodorant with an amazing chemical aroma. All this is necessary in order for the perfume to support the real face of a man,but did not hide it. So, for example, a young man with a tart aroma of tobacco and notes of dark wood will seem overly pompous and too old.
But a respectable businessman who bought a cheap perfume with a pungent citrus scent for himself will only cause bewilderment among colleagues and a desire to throw the smelly bottle as far away as possible. It's important to experiment together. Give the wife the opportunity to choose the smell that she likes more. Eventually the woman will get used to it. Then the intimate smell of a man, dear and familiar, will work for a partner, and not against him.
Change is not always positive
It is worth imagining an ordinary man, courageous, strong, strong and reliable. He's been buying a particular brand of cologne for years that's simple yet quite sophisticated, like tart coffee paired with a sweet floral accent. This perfume is a rather old, but still fashionable classic suit, the smell of a man is familiar and loved by his companion.
After that, he is advised to try a novelty, a stunningly popular and expensive cologne, which smells of a gentle marine accent, coupled with lily of the valley. And here is the same man awkwardly shifting in sneakers and shorts, which are also small for him. This is what a typical example of searching for a new perfume looks like. The smell of an excited man is also a kind of "cologne", and you should not spoil it with synthetic lubricants or chemicals.
Does it matter?
It is possible that women understand this issue much better because they live in a more affluentthe world of smells. Perhaps, any girl is faced with the fact that a handsome, we althy man, who should attract her attention to himself, for some reason does not like it. He beautifully looks after her, calls in a car for her, perhaps even involved her in an intimate relationship, only the sex turns out to be faded, intense, mechanical. This is the key feature of the "wrong" partner. Getting rid of it, enduring it, trying to drown out the fragrance with perfume - all this is pointless, because sooner or later the problem will still come out, and then you will have to part under an unclear pretext, bashfully looking down.
What is the real smell of a man
Nobody knows this. Yes, it is possible to formulate a chemical formula, even write it down and develop the desired aroma in the laboratory by collecting samples and processing them. But this will not give an answer to the question of what the beloved husband smells like, snoring in the morning, burying his nose in the chest of his beloved. For some girls, this is the aroma of lilac, mowed grass, a tart woody aroma, for others it is something completely unknown, but just dearly loved and so dear. You should not hide your "face" behind a terribly expensive perfume and hide from your beloved when it is over. It's just stupid and illogical. A loved one remains so in any state.
