When after a girl they throw a significant “Proud, or what?”, It sounds more insulting than enthusiastic. First you need to understand what this concept is. How to treat such a character trait: with caution or strive to develop it in yourself?
Knows his worth
Pride, unlike pride, is called positive self-esteem, that is, the presence of a person's self-esteem and self-respect. When they say "proud girl", they mean the person who definitely knows her own worth. Not an arrogant person, but one who knows how to stand up for himself, defend his rights and his own point of view.
The same Angelica
When you say "proud girl," what character in a novel or movie comes to mind? Of course, the red-haired Angelica, a character in the books of Anne and Serge Golon. How much she endured suffering, humiliation, insults, but did not break, did not lose faith in herself and her future. Yes, this character is fictional, but there are women who can be admired endlessly: their perseverance, courage and inner strength.
Work on your weaknesses
She has her weaknesses, which she does not like to advertise and show to others. She is used to hiding the negative, and finds a way out for him in solitude when no one is around. Some people think that this is not a person, but a piece of stone: soulless and not subject to normal human emotions. They are deeply mistaken. This girl holds herself confidently, respects herself and others, and knows which weak character traits need to be especially worked on.
What men like
Do men like it? Let's try to understand which character the girl especially evokes sympathy for:
- Having a sense of humor.
- Kindness.
- Tidiness.
- Generosity.
- The ability to care.
- The ability and willingness to listen.
- Individuality.
- A little bitchiness.
Do you agree that without humor, communication will be insipid? And kindness in men is associated with the sincerity of the mother. If a girl is sloppy, few people will like it. Generosity has a continuation of kindness and care. Men love to be listened to. Such a quality as the ability to listen is worth its weight in gold, rare people possess it. Individuality only emphasizes the personality of a person. When a girl shows her eccentricity, it means that she is a “proud girl” to some extent. And a little bitch will not hurt anyone, because a certain sharpness in a relationship should be present. Oddly enough, the ideal girl, but absolutely insipid, will make a man find the thrill of sensations onside.
As for the signs of the horoscope…
If we translate these qualities into any of the signs of the horoscope, then most of all they suit Scorpio. People of this sign have a strong will, a huge supply of energy, often win. Detractors believe that they are lucky, or that their circumstances have turned out so well. A strong, purposeful, proud Scorpio girl frightens and attracts men like a magnet. It is in it that there is the same bitch, which was discussed above. And given that the character of a Scorpio girl necessarily implies sexuality and sensitivity, then you can only shrug why men are crazy about “scorpions”. Truly sexy and sensual proud!