A woman is a beautiful flower that contains so many mysteries and unsolved mysteries that sometimes it seems that you can’t solve everything. But at the same time, she is often the standard of elegance and tenderness.
The history and evolution of the beauty industry has tangibly affected the fair sex in general. All sorts of standards and canons have changed. Fashion, of course, did not stand still. But the concept of "lady" has not changed its position since its introduction into circulation - every girl and woman strives for this status from an early age.
Mystery in history
The word "lady" began to be used around the 18th century. Then women were infringed on their rights, and ordinary city dwellers had the status of housewives. Only royal persons and representatives of high society could attract attention with their refined manners, behavior and style of dress. The difference was colossal, for everyone else such a world seemed out of reach. To get into it, one had to either be born into a rich family, or find a self-sufficient man who could give it all.
But still, in those days, ladies were not representatives of the upper strata of the population, but those ladies who were engaged in baking (the word comes from the Old Englishhlǣfdige – “she who kneads bread”).
The 20th century was a turning point in this area. Women and girls who married high-ranking people received this status and became the main role model in their state.
Our days
Today, a lady is a woman who strives for perfection. She is not vulgar, has a certain aristocracy in her behavior, keeps everyone at a distance and walks with her head held high. Ladies do not pay attention to men and what they say about them, since in most cases such ladies are already married and remain devoted to their companions.
The laws of a real lady
1. Sense of style. From childhood, every mother instills in her daughter an interest in refined manners and art, tries to give a comprehensive education that will help improve in this direction, shows the outlines of elegance in everything that surrounds her. The concept of style includes not only the selection of clothes in a tribute to fashion, but also the presence of taste. Radiation of charm, the ability to attract others are the main qualities for women with this status.
2. Refined manners. No matter how hard you try, you will not meet a woman lady who would allow herself to use indecent language and have immoral behavior. Producing the right speech takes most of the time, as it is the first thing people pay attention to.
3. Education. A real lady is a woman who can speak several languages. She must be knowledgeable in many topics, bewell-read, erudite, follow the news in various areas of life and at any social event with new people be able to keep up the conversation. Self-development and knowledge accompany the lady throughout her life. Such women learn something new all their lives, never resting on their laurels.
4. Work on yourself. For such a woman, the main goal is to always be in shape. No one will ever find her in sloppy clothes, with a sick expression on her face and disheveled hair. Going to beauty salons and the gym is a duty to which most of the personal time is given. Otherwise, the status of a lady can easily fade away.
Unbreakable
Many have heard the expression "iron lady", but for some reason everyone under this concept means a woman who is unable to show any emotions, feelings. Simply put, this is not a person, but a robot. Such ladies have no place in their hearts for love, tenderness and affection. Romantic things are generally beyond fantasy for them.
But in fact, who is the iron lady? The expression first appeared in the English newspaper The Sunday Times in 1976, where an article was published about the leader of the conservative party of the Soviet Union. This journalistic essay was called "The Iron Lady scares …", which caused a very strong reaction from Margaret Thatcher. Soon, this nickname stuck with her and still remains an integral part of her image, even after death.
Now this expression is ironic. In most cases, it is used to characterize girls whooccupy high positions or have their own business. The main qualities of such ladies include determination, inflexibility in decisions and willpower.
A strict look will solve all problems
Things in the foreground? A typical characteristic of a business woman. Many respectable men encounter this type of woman at work. They do not need much from others, because they always strive to do everything themselves. Strictness and determination are in the first place, and family values are far on the shelf.
Business women are often sharp, graceful, tough and freedom-loving women. When meeting with them, you can notice an evaluating look and immediately find yourself in the “subordinate - boss” hierarchy. Their priority is not money, but strength and power. They like to feel above the rest in status and influence other people's lives. A leadership position affirms self-esteem.
Elegant power
Not every average woman and not even a businesswoman can be awarded the title of "First Lady". This expression has been fixed since the nineteenth century and has not disappeared from everyday life.
The first lady is the wife of the elected head of state. Initially, this title was worn by the spouses of the presidents of the United States of America, but later everything went far beyond the borders of this country.
In this status, women maintain contact with other wives of heads of state. During official visits, events are organized especially for the first ladies.
Secrets of success
Truelady - this is the woman who knows all the sacraments in the field of etiquette, communication and more. We will reveal a few secrets that will help build the image of an elegant and well-mannered lady in everyday life:
1. Do not strive to be the first to say hello to those who are younger than you. Only people belonging to certain social categories are exceptions. This is:
- representatives of the government or the royal family;
- priests;
- people who hold military positions.
2. At all social events, a handshake of a woman with a woman is welcome.
3. When you are accompanied by a gentleman, it is better to go to the right side of him.
4. If you have to use public transport, let the man go ahead.
5. Always keep your back straight. Beautiful posture attracts attention, as it creates the impression of a self-confident person.
6. Going down stairs or going up, try to keep your legs as close as possible, so the waist will look much more beautiful and attract the attention of men.
7. When you are sitting, it is better to fold your hands into an "English lock" or put your palms on top of each other.
This list of little secrets will help during all major events and at any event. After all, a lady is a standard in every sense of the word.
Little Princess
Well, the secrets of an adult woman have already been figured out, but still the moment comes,when you want to give birth to an heiress. And when this happens, the question arises of how to instill, almost from birth, the concepts of aesthetics and a sense of taste in a little girl.
Remember: a lady is a girl who, first of all, is scrupulous about her external data and image. But, when all this is laid in the early stages of development, you should be careful, because, for example, excessive love for cosmetics can backfire and lead to the fact that the image becomes vulgar.
Also, don't put into your daughter's head the idea that "for every princess there is a prince." After all, excessive fantasies at a more mature age will lead to the fact that the girl, and maybe even the woman, will remain in splendid isolation, as she will wait too long for her “prince”. On the contrary, tell your child about what love is, how wonderful it is that a loved one is capable of anything for the sake of his woman. Prosperity is important, but not in the first place.
It is worth paying attention to the rules of etiquette, demeanor and neatness in the period of formation.
Pursuit of perfection
And in conclusion, it is worth noting that being a lady is not an innate ability, but a great work of mother and daughter. The main thing is the goal and perseverance, since it is not always possible to be elegant and beautiful due to lack of time and endurance. Those luxurious women who have achieved some success in their lives worked on themselves 24 hours a day. Even in a dream, they scrolled through plans for the future and programmed themselves for success. daily routine andscheduling is very useful in many cases.
And remember that a lady is not inherent in such a quality as cruelty. Someone, perhaps, will fit the image of a bitch, but these are absolutely parallel concepts. Being a lady is the choice of every woman, and at any age you can get this status.
Do not be upset if, as a teenager, you never paid attention to the canons of beauty, fashion and style and were a gray mouse or a crazy punk.
Things change and time can be good. In this situation, we advise you to remember the legendary expression: “I see the goal, I see no obstacles!” Good luck!
