Don't know how to respond to compliments? Unfortunately, it is easier for a person to believe that he looks bad than that he is beautiful. Why is this happening? The less often you get compliments, the worse you respond to them. It's all about practice. If you want to become more resourceful, rehearse in front of a mirror. What do you need to rehearse? Read more about it below.
Keep it simple
How to respond to a compliment? The more natural you act, the better. For example, you were told that today you have a very beautiful styling, but you know that you haven’t even washed your hair since yesterday. And at this moment, many girls are lost. Do not think that this is obvious flattery. Perhaps the man who complimented you just wants you to pay attention to him. Therefore, you need to sincerely smile and thank you. Say a sincere "thank you". If nothing else comes to your mind, it is better to be silent. The flow of words that canto escape from your embarrassment or embarrassment can spoil the whole impression. So say "thank you" and then after half a minute, you can ask a question, changing the subject. For example, ask the person who complimented you how they are doing on a project.
Can't figure out how to respond to a "you're beautiful" compliment? Everything is very simple. Here again, a smile will help you. Thank the person for the compliment, and you can tell that you have a good heredity.
Always answer
Many girls, and sometimes men, make the same mistake. They don't know how to respond to compliments and therefore decide it's not worth saying anything at all. But believe me, it's not. Any person who gives you a compliment or asks a question always counts on feedback. It is needed at least so that your interlocutor can understand how you feel about him. Let's take a look at an example. How to respond to a compliment from a man who says you look wonderful today. A simple smile is not enough here. Yes, you need to smile, but after that say at least something. It is advisable not to be very verbose when responding to compliments. You can say "thank you" or "I'm pleased." Show respect for the person. It may have been difficult for him to approach you and compliment you.
No need to be shy
Another mistake common to girls who don't know how to respond tocompliments are a sign of embarrassment. Despite the fact that all women love compliments, they cannot control themselves when they hear them. Somehow, involuntarily, the eyes drop to the floor, hands begin to fiddle with a bag or watch bracelet, and some ladies also blush. If it seems to you that such a reaction is very sweet and feminine, then say goodbye to this myth. All that you show the interlocutor, reacting in this way, is that compliments are given to you quite rarely. After all, ladies who are often told that they are beautiful know how to smile coquettishly in response and say something like "thank you, I'm trying for you." Therefore, there is no need to be shy. Do not take your eyes off the interlocutor, and even more so do not look for support near the floor, looking at invisible patterns on it. Try to relax and if you don't know where to put your hands, you can fix your hair.
No need to move the spotlight beam
Girls who don't often get compliments not only don't know how to accept praise, but also often try to move the arrows. For example, a lady is told that she made a great presentation. She is embarrassed to admit even to herself that everything went well. Then she begins to tell the boss that without him she definitely would not have coped. But after all, the boss did not write the text, did not teach it, and did not select material for the presentation. This was done by a girl, and she deserved sincere praise. If you find yourself in this situation, allow yourself to enjoy everyone's attention. Thank everyone who tells you how wonderfully you performed. Not needed for everyonein a row to tell that they would have done an excellent job with your task. Maybe they did it, maybe they didn't. But they didn't get a chance to try it, but you did just fine.
The same goes for a compliment about a haircut or a new dress. If a friend told you that you look wonderful, say "thank you" to her. No need to assure her in response that she is beautiful. That sounds very disingenuous.
Don't make excuses
Girls often don't understand how to respond to men's compliments. So they begin to deny them. This is a very gross mistake. Only very insecure ladies do this. They tell you that you are beautiful, believe it. It would be silly to say: "Today I did not have time to wash my hair and almost did not make up." Believe me, if a man considers you beautiful even with a dirty head, then most likely he is just in love with you. Do not prevent him from enjoying this feeling and do not destroy the myth that you are the most beautiful creature on the planet. Also, do not deny your merits. If you did some work and were thanked, and then said that no one could have done a better job than you, say "thank you" sincerely. No need to make excuses and say that there would be many such people.
Group compliment
Sometimes you have to get into an awkward situation when you are praised for common merits. How to respond to compliments of this type? So that they don’t think that you are arrogant or want to ascribe all the honors and laurels to yourself, first say"Thank you". Then tell about everyone who helped you achieve success. If you don't quite understand how to do this, pay attention to how celebrities receive an Oscar or any other awards. They first smile charmingly, joke, and then say "thank you" to their family and the entire crew.
How to respond to compliments with humor? You can say, "Thanks, I'm glad to think that you think that I alone can do such a large amount of work in such a short time. Of course, I would like to become a superman, but my superpower lies in a well-chosen team. What if If I chose my superpower, I would prefer to go through walls, sometimes it's just impossible to quickly find the keys in the backpack."
What to say if the compliment is rather dubious
People are all different, and not everyone has good intentions. Therefore, sometimes you have to listen to not very flattering compliments. For example, to a girl who looks stunning, a colleague might say, "You're too luxuriously dressed for this event." The feeling created after such a compliment is twofold. On the one hand, a colleague said that you are beautiful, and on the other hand, she emphasized the inappropriateness of your outfit. How to respond to the compliment “you are beautiful” of such a plan? You have to learn to keep your face. A great phrase that helps to avoid awkward silence in such situations: "I'll take that as a compliment." You need to pronounce the phrase with a smile and without hidden connotations. After all, the person whohe is trying to hurt you, first of all, he is dissatisfied with himself, and only then with you. So, perhaps in the case of a colleague, a woman may just be jealous that she does not have the same beautiful dress.
How to respond to a compliment about luck
Some people who are too lazy may feel that fate is too unkind to them. It is these individuals who manage to weigh out such “compliments”: you are too lucky in life, you don’t even have to make an effort to succeed. How to respond to a compliment? An example might be: "To achieve something, you need to work on yourself, luck accompanies the one who makes a lot of effort." And keep in mind that the phrase should sound friendly. You are not snapping, you just want to convey to a person a simple idea that water does not flow under a lying stone.
How to respond to flattery
Not always a compliment is a sincere expression of delight. Sometimes people try to gain your trust with flattery. After all, a person is always supportive of those who compliment him. You need to learn to understand the level of sincerity of the interlocutor. How to respond to a compliment that clearly has overtones of flattery? You can openly say: "Your words flatter me, but let's not deify me!". Such a phrase will cool the ardor of the interlocutor, and he will understand that you see through him.
