Many people remember the famous singer Alexander Barykin, his songs "Bouquet", "In the French side", "Green eyes" and others. Many believe that his second wife, Nelly Barykina, is to blame for the death of the singer. There are many rumors and speculation about this woman. Consider her point of view on what happened and find out how and with whom she lives now.
Nellie meets Alexander
Nelli Barykina, whose biography before meeting Alexander did not differ in anything remarkable, was born in Chita. Vlasova (last name before marriage) worked in the tax office, led a normal life.
At the time of meeting Alexander was 52 years old, he was 33 years older than the girl. Nelly Barykina (born October 14, 1985) was a nineteen-year-old girl who, of course, was familiar with his work.
The acquaintance happened in Bryansk, where Nelly lived. Alexander had a friend who knew both Nelly and the fact that she writes poetry well. He invited the girl to one of the bohemian parties to introduce her to Sasha,show him the work of a young poetess.
Short acquaintance
At the party, they talked a little and immediately became interested in each other. Alexander was then already divorced from his first wife, so he saw no reason not to invite a new acquaintance on a date.
They went to a restaurant, and the next day the singer returned to Moscow, Nelly stayed in Bryansk. The couple began to communicate only through messages.
About a month later, Sasha began to come to the girl on dates in her city, and soon took her with him. They went on tour together a lot and even sang in a duet.
Creative family
The lovers decided to get together even before the wedding, because both understood that they could no longer live without each other.
Nelli Barykina wrote the lyrics, and Alexander put music on them. They did not live well, since the singer gave almost all of his fees to the first family, where his son and adopted daughter grew up.
As Nelly Barykina later said, he practically did not communicate with his first wife, and his son could not talk to him for six months. Sasha felt guilty before the child (the divorce from his first wife was due to his short affair with one of the fans), tried to soften him with money, to make sure that the family did not need anything.
The situation did not change when Barykin and Nelly became the parents of a joint daughter, Evgenia.
Independent woman
The young mother has becometell your spouse that he wants to build his solo career. Nelly Barykina convinced Alexander that this was necessary due to lack of money. But he was categorically against it.
Alexander wanted his wife to depend on him, stay at home, raise a child. Nelly understood that there would simply be nothing to feed her daughter if she did not restore her financial situation. She got a job as a creative director, and left the baby to her unemployed mother.
Soon, in defiance of her husband, she began to create her own group "Nellie". Barykina was surprised that the musicians went to her, realizing the complete lack of production. They just believed her, tried to succeed from scratch.
After a while, the woman realized that her husband was not helping her, but was trying in every possible way to interfere. This was the reason that she packed her things and the child and left her husband's house.
Nelli Barykina would never have left her husband, it was just that there was a child in her arms who needed clothes and food, and the father could not provide for a new family, preferring to help the first one.
Experiencing separation
Alexander was worried about his wife leaving, she also spent a lot of time trying to calm down. Sasha came to visit his daughter, but made no attempt to return the family.
Nelli Barykina says that he was quite satisfied with the current freedom, although she never kept him near her.
She knew about his adventures while still living with him. He could, without asking, leave for the weekend with friends in another city, or even a country.
The woman saysthat she would not change her decision with a divorce, even if she knew that soon her husband would not be.
The singer's widow
On March 26, 2011, right during the concert, the famous artist had a heart attack. Doctors tried for 15 hours to save his life, but failed.
Alexander died before he could divorce Nelly, remaining her husband even after her death.
Many of Barykin's friends claim that Sasha could not bear the breakup with his wife, and moreover, literally on the eve of the next tour, he caught her with another man.
Everyone became indignant, they say, he bought an apartment for her and her daughter, and she leads men there!
Nelli Barykina comments that Alexander knew about her new relationship. The apartment belongs to her by right, as she also invested a lot in his work.
Nellie also said that at the time of death, Sasha already had a new love. He himself told her about the 33-year-old Olga, whom he began dating. Left with his wife in a rather warm relationship, he asked her for advice on a new passion, Nellie never refused him frank conversations.
In defense of ex-husband
A little later, programs about Barykin began to be shown on television, various causes of his death were put forward.
Some claimed that the singer was ruined by alcohol. Nellie began to protest about this. She claimed that her husband had not drunk for more than ten years, and his appearance was reflected in long-term binges, which never went without a trace.
Then they becametalk about his mistresses. In television programs, Alexander was practically accused of being too loving. Here, too, Nelly said her weighty word: his life, he did what he wanted. She did not present herself as a deceived victim in order to be pitied. Nelly said that she knew about her husband's numerous novels both during their life together and after separation. I treated it like the whims of a big child. Well, what to do with him and with his amorousness?
Barykina Nelly got married
When Nelly calmed down a little about her husband's death and they stopped discussing him so violently, she began to build her future. The woman began to live with the same man, an affair with whom she was credited with for a long time. And here Alexander's friends rebelled again: she hammered the last nail into Sasha's coffin with her adventures, and also brought her new husband's apartment presented to them!
Nellie took these attacks difficult, she knew that Alexander's death was not to blame, but could not prove it. After all, only the two of them knew that the family had broken up long before she met another man - Anton.
Barykin's wife Nelli, whose biography became difficult after meeting with Alexander, suffered greatly because of the death of her husband, because of the sidelong glances of his friends.
Relationship with former mother-in-law
Nellie did not stop communicating with Sasha's old mother. The woman was glad when her daughter-in-law and granddaughter came to her, she is one of the few who did not blame Nelly for the death of the singer.
The mother-in-law was on the girl's side when she found out about her son's affairs behind her back. She persuaded Sasha many times to stop his wild lifestyle, raise a daughter, and love his young wife.
When Barykin's wife Nelly got married, her ex-mother-in-law did not blame her. She understood that a young woman needed male support.
She said that Nelly shared all her problems with her, like with her mother. Nelly told her that with her new husband they live practically in poverty, both cannot get a job.
After a while, however, their relationship ended. Zhenya (daughter of Barykin and Nelly) began to bring the mother of the former daughter-in-law to visit her grandmother. The woman understood that the new husband could forbid her to communicate with her mother-in-law, so she was not offended.
The son from his first marriage completely stopped visiting his old grandmother, and then the grown-up Zhenya. The old woman was left all alone. Only doctors and social workers came to see her.
Nellie's new life
Soon Nelly Barykina got a job as an art director in a small company.
Everything would have started to get better in life, if not for her husband. Anton began to drink often, regularly beat his wife. He even drove a woman with a child out into the street several times. Could do it in the middle of the night. He was not embarrassed by the fact that the apartment belonged to her.
Then information appeared that Anton still drives an old Toyota, which Alexander also bought for his wife.
Nellie's life got worse and worse, she didn't know who to turn to, where to go. She left her job becauseconstant beatings could not appear in public. For some time she worked part-time in nightclubs with songs to the guitar, but this work is a thing of the past. Many of her friends are perplexed: Nelly has a lot of unrecorded songs, she could start a new life!
Everyone also understands that a woman will not get out of poverty until she breaks up with Anton.
Alexandra's mother is also worried about her. She says that Nelly has completely neglected herself, stopped going to beauty salons, playing sports. She wants nothing!
That's how Nelly's life turned out. She was happy for a very short time, only with Sasha. After her second marriage, she did not change her last name, and remained Barykina. This suggests that the girl loved Alexandra for real and, perhaps, loves now.
This woman turns 32 this year, she still has her whole life ahead of her! We wish her the best of luck, happiness, material well-being. Let's hope that we will hear Nelly's songs again, that her friends will convince her to record an album and part with her husband, who is dragging her to the bottom.
