Family is a social institution, an equal union of a man and a woman, a fortress in which we feel protected. But it still needs to be built, and the relationship in marriage should be made truly strong and happy. There are certain symbols of the institution of the family, the meaning of which we will consider here.
Chamomile
Currently, in our country, the sign of pure love is chamomile, in addition, it also denotes fidelity, tenderness and simplicity. Its white color represents purity, and the yellow center represents the hearth. Petals seem to unite into one whole - into a strong family. This flower has become a symbol of the Day of Family, Love and Fidelity, celebrated in Russia since 2008. It reflects a pure and great feeling. It is recommended to keep bouquets of chamomiles at home during the summer period, and in other seasons it would be nice to hang an ikebana at home, consisting of at least 5 chamomile flowers.
The designation of the family is also open palms, which imply the unity of relatives and the warmth that they give to each other.
Ancient family symbols
Slavs worshiped the forces of nature, and this was reflected in the manufactureamulets. Such symbols could be found everywhere: they were not only a means of decoration, but, according to belief, they gave a certain protection and attracted good luck.
So, among these signs that our distant ancestors used, we can distinguish such as Solard, Ladinets, Kolard, Bunny, Wedding. They give protection to family members. Let's take a closer look at them.
Solard - signifies prosperity, prosperity. The Kolard sign is a similar symbol, the difference is that the swastika of these signs is located differently: clockwise and counterclockwise. It helps to strengthen the family union, and gives he alth to the offspring.
These two signs are sunny and fiery, they are aimed at maintaining well-being in the house, and patronize those who live in peace and harmony.
Ladinets symbolizes happiness, love and harmony in the family. It is a truly feminine amulet, for example, it gives protection from the evil eye. For married women, it becomes important to protect the family hearth, well-being and prosperity in the home. Often a couple to this amulet was Kolyadnik, who was the personification of male power. In those days, the goddess Lada was considered the patroness of women, and the god Kolyada was considered the patroness of men. The combination of these two signs represents the unity of the two sexes, mutual understanding between them, the strengthening of marriage ties, and, of course, true love.
The bunny personifies renewal and is considered an ancestral amulet. During pregnancy, it was customary to wear a belt with this sign, it was believed that it endows mother and baby with light, solar energy.
Powerful family symbol
Svadebnik is considered a strong amulet. It means the fusion of male and female principles, two genera into one. Since ancient times, the Slavs attached great importance to the marriage ceremony and the institution of marriage. This sign was given, as usual, by the parents of the newlyweds after the wedding ceremony. It is intended exclusively for married couples. The image of this symbol is a combination of four red and blue rings in the sign of infinity.
Feng Shui: symbols of family well-being
In the practice of Feng Shui, a figurine of mandarin ducks is considered a symbol of inseparability and devotion for a married couple. As a rule, it is placed in the southwestern part of the dwelling. Also in this teaching, the signs of the family are trees. Among them are bamboo, cypress, pine, plum. In addition, a dragon figurine can contribute to well-being. It brings good luck, protects all family members.
Photos of household members in frames are also a kind of talismans. They should be located in the eastern part of the dwelling. Frames should be rectangular and made of wood. The color is desirable to choose green or blue.
Icons protecting family well-being
It is recommended to keep the following images at home: Guardians and Intercessors of your family, St. Peter and Fevronia of Murom. Icon of the Blessed Virgin Mary "Fadeless Color" gives protection to spouses.
Also, the image with which parents bless the young is a symbol of the family and bringshappiness.
Items in everyday life that are amulets
Symbols of family and marriage: bast shoes, a figurine of a house, a canvas, a horseshoe, a donut, a chain. Bow - a talisman from tears. Bread means prosperity and harmony in the house. Sunflower seeds promise he alth to children. Corn - family cohesion, procreation, protection from diseases, mutual understanding. Female and male figure tied with threads - the inseparability of bonds and love. A knot is a talisman against scandals.
Wedding Symbols
A pair of doves is also a symbol of love and family well-being. No wonder there is such a wedding tradition, how to release these birds into the sky.
Wedding rings are symbols of the family, the indestructible union between a man and a woman entering into marriage. By exchanging rings, the spouses transfer part of their energy to each other. It is recommended that in the first months after the wedding, do not take them off and do not let anyone try them on.
Veil - gives the bride protection from the evil eye. The custom of wearing it for a wedding came from Poland. She creates a kind of energy shield that reflects the negative directed towards the bride. At the same time, after the wedding, it is necessary to carefully store the veil, it will serve as a talisman that can protect a young family.
The bride's bouquet is another important attribute. According to legend, the girl who catches him should get married soon, this is because she begins to radiate a special energy, and the wreath seems to go to her. It is better that white flowers are present in the bouquet: theyare a sign of purity and eternity.
The magic symbol for the family is loaf. Only in order for it to become such, it must be properly baked. A mother, relative or godmother of the bride, that close woman who has a good family life, should work on its manufacture. It must be baked so that it has a neat shape, without cracks.
On the loaf lay out the symbols of the family, which give protection to the young couple. Flowers, birds, viburnum, mint and rye are often used as them. The loaf is distributed to all guests, so that, in this way, the energy of the two families merges together.
Towel - the bride herself must embroider it, in secret from everyone. She should be alone and in complete silence. Previously, the girl reads a prayer. When embroidering, her thoughts should be positive and filled with ideas about the future family life. Work must begin on Thursday. It is embroidered on a clean and whole canvas. The towel is a symbol of the life path that the family must go through together.
Parents bless the young on it, while strangers should not be at home. The towel has a male and female half, so it is important to stand on it correctly during the blessing. From this moment on, this attribute acquires the value of a talisman. The ceremony must certainly take place on Sunday.
Parental blessing is an important symbol of family happiness. The attributes for the bride are the icon of the Mother of God, and for the groom - the icon of Christ the Savior.
Stones,which are a symbol of family happiness
These include:
- Beryl is a sign of family, fidelity and love.
- Aquamarine - guards the happiness of spouses.
- Sapphire is a stone of love, family and fidelity.
- Carnelian - keeps home peace, happiness and protects from evil spells.
Thus, we determined that there are many different designations for the institution of marriage, interpreted the meaning of the symbols of family and love. They have been used since ancient times, when it was firmly believed that the mysterious forces of nature could help build happiness. Be that as it may, do not forget that the basis of true well-being in the family is sincere love, respect and fidelity.
