Standard, already set on edge situation: a woman complains to her friend that her man does not want to marry. She sympathizes in response, in the spirit of “here is a scoundrel!”. It doesn’t even occur to her to ask the question: “But he doesn’t want to go to the registry office with anyone, or is it with you?” Or maybe she comes, but she does not ask, so as not to offend. After all, he guesses why he does not propose. Hands and hearts, I mean. He probably offers something else sometimes…
The eternal question: what does a man want? Only another can be compared with him in complexity: what does a woman want? A distinction must be made between desire and need. A person does not always want what he needs, and vice versa, he does not necessarily need what he wants. So how do you figure it all out?
In fact, for the most part, the desires of both sexes at a certain age coincide. Both of them need a family, they want love, attention and affection. And children are needed, because otherwise it is very difficult to determine the meaning of life, and the chosen one, no matter how stupid he sometimes looks, sometimes still thinks about him. So it is enough for a woman to listen to herself in order to understand what a man wants from a woman of the most important thing: love,respect and attention. It's not much, but that's all. And if he gets it, then there will be no issue with the registry office.
But this is on condition that he loves himself. But it happens that a lady breaks her head, what else does he, the infection, still need. And she has an apartment. And the work is good, and she herself, it seems to be wow, if the mirror does not lie. And he dresses well and looks after himself.
Only men are different, just like women. One needs a wife as a replacement for an aged mother, who has taken care of him all his life, washed, fed and made all decisions for him. What does this type of man want? Of course, it needs to be directed. He, like a horse, must feel the rider. If he goes to drink with the guys, he knows for sure that the missus will come after him in a couple of hours and drive him home. And it's all right! This is such a ritual, it will slightly express displeasure, but in the soul it will remain satisfied: after all, it is not indifferent, and in good hands.
And here is another type, denoted by the expression "Who is the boss in the house?". This one, on the contrary, seeks to dominate. Well, if he can really be responsible for everything that happens in the family - fine. What does the male owner want? With him, too, everything is clear, he needs to feel his importance, and in order to follow the line in front of him … Women are much smarter than it often seems to such men, they can portray complete humility, in fact, they are making fun of the illusion of power that they can create.
The nastiest type of the stronger sex is called a rag. As they say, without fish … But even at a very critical age and the most hopeless situation, when a woman considers herself a “chance”, she should think hard about whether such a husband is needed at all, or is it better to have one? What does the rag man want? Yes, he himself does not know, except for the simplest physiological functions, which include food, sex and a couple of procedures necessary for the body. Work is not included in this list.
There is also a type of man - a free falcon. This case is difficult, but not hopeless. You will have to tinker, but it's worth it. The biggest difficulty lies in the fact that such an eagle needs a woman not as a servant or a cook, he is used to doing it himself and knows how to do everything. You can't buy it for food and laundry. But he has a need to admire himself and be the subject of admiration for his lady of the heart. If there are grounds for this, then complete harmony will come. But such a man cannot be disappointed.
So, in nature there are only four main types of men. Everything else is just some variations and combinations, because psychotypes are rare in their pure form. By correctly recognizing and applying the right tactics, every woman can ensure her success. But before you act, you still need to think.
