For some people, July is a month associated with carelessness, summer holidays and sometimes vacations, while yesterday's schoolchildren are going through a not very pleasant, but perhaps the most important period of their lives. Graduates are faced with the task of deciding what a vocation is, and making a choice on which the whole future life will depend. This choice is certainly difficult, and therefore deserves close attention.
Difficulties in self-determination
In order to correctly determine what a vocation is, you must first brush aside everything that is confusing and does not directly relate to the question itself. It is necessary to try to abstract from friends, acquaintances, relatives, from their practical and not very advice and considerations.
You need to forget about what is fashionable, popular, prestigious, and first of all think not about money, but about yourself. Yes, a little he althy, or, if you like, natural egoism will not hurt here, because very often children, subjected to pressure from adults (parents, grandparents or older friends), replace their aspirations with the desires of other people, call their life's work not their own, and strangersunrealized dreams. Is it possible to find a more effective way to ruin a person's life forever than to force him to do what he does not like? Hardly.
Vocation and favorite work: where is the line?
Answering the question of what a vocation is, it is important not to allow the substitution of concepts. Often people identify what they love with their destiny, while there are serious differences between these two human hypostases. So, vocation is not just “my favorite profession”, but something more abstract and less tangible. Rather, it is a kind of vector of personal movement and disposition of interests, or, if you like, a landmark to which one must strive all one's life. Thus, destiny is rather a philosophical category that describes a view of the world and a person’s place in it, while “my favorite profession” is a concrete manifestation of human destiny, these are the bricks that make up the path in the chosen direction.
Speaking of which, for example, is there a difference between being a teacher and being born to be a teacher? The question is purely rhetorical.
Vocation is for the chosen ones?
Destiny, one way or another, is inherent in any person, because each representative of the human race is a piece of a huge puzzle called "Life". Only not everyone is given to be heroes and geniuses: some find their "I" in the family and loved ones, others live, led by an endless thirst for achievement, others dream of improving the world. The talents of people are varied,and this is normal, therefore, to reproach a person for the fact that he prefers a “warm nest” to uncertainty, coupled with uncertainty, is hardly worthy. The purpose of a person should depend solely on his personal choice, and to encroach on this choice is to encroach on freedom, which is an inalienable right of every member of society.
Are mistakes fatal?
"To err is human", but people have not managed to come to terms with this for thousands of years of their existence, which, perhaps, is even wonderful.
The inability to be satisfied with what is available and the desire to fight are very stimulating to move forward. Mistakes are a natural part of our lives, and putting an end to your calling just because they could not be prevented is at least stupid. Mistakes should teach, but in no case lead astray, because the destiny of a person requires not only movement in the chosen direction, but also the ability to overcome all emerging difficulties. And there will probably be a lot of them, and, perhaps, only the one who does not know how to pass, but who does an excellent job of destroying illusory and not very obstacles on the way to a dream, will be happy in the end.
How not to go astray?
You can think and reason about this topic for a long time, although the secret of success is actually very simple: you need to be able to relax.
It is important to find an outlet, a warm hearth where you can warm up and come to your senses. You must not allow yourself to turn into ashes, because to "burn" is to achievea certain point of no return, when life suddenly loses its colors, and forward movement occurs solely by inertia. The feeling of fatigue tends to accumulate, and the more it is deposited somewhere in the bins of the human soul, the more destructive effect it has on the personality. That's when the destination becomes not an incentive, but a curse, an eternal webbing that you can't, you just can't help but pull. It is here that the routine begins, the feeling of dissatisfaction, and, as a result, despondency, apathy, nervous breakdowns and prolonged depression. This is a matter not only of physical, but also of mental, psychological he alth, which means that this should by no means be neglected.
Where to look for support?
It is unlikely that anyone doubts that "a person needs a person." However, many underestimate the involvement of other people in their lives. However, without exception, each of us knows the feeling that Diogenes once experienced when he went in search of someone with a torch. This is a desire, no, rather a thirst to bury your nose in a human chest, to feel warmth, affection, support, support, to express everything that you want to express, and to remain silent about what should be clear without words.
Behind every great or successful person there were close friends, relatives, parents who encouraged, comforted in sorrowful moments and guided them on the right path. Isn't it more pleasant to try for someone other than yourself than to try only for yourself? The highest vocation for all people, in any case, is one thing - to love and be loved. This is something worth living for, and for what,perhaps not afraid to die.
Goal and how to achieve it
The question of vocation is very often taken by surprise, because on the way to answering it, people encounter many confusing factors. Such factors include, for example, the desire to earn a lot.
There is certainly nothing wrong with this, but exactly as long as we alth does not become an end in itself and does not replace all human values. Here, first of all, it is important not to cross the line when the end justifies any means. A vocation can bring pleasure only when the highest moral law is not violated. Human history, experience, and literature clearly show that happiness built on “foreign blood” is, in fact, not happiness. And if the realization of this does not come to a person immediately, then it will certainly overtake him in the future, forcing him to cruelly pay old bills.
Is it possible to be disappointed in your calling?
But not only meanness makes us unhappy. Working for the soul is very often opposed to working for money, which is one of the reasons people end up disappointed in their chosen calling. Is it possible that if these two concepts are not put on opposite sides of the barricades, the problem will be solved?
A person necessarily becomes rich if he achieves high skill in his favorite business, however, if he sprays himself on something that is not to his liking, in the hope of mountains of gold, successimpossible a priori. To become truly happy, you need to put your soul into your calling. A musician, for example, can write songs trying to satisfy the desires of the audience as much as possible and earn as much as possible, but then he must be prepared for the fact that the moment will probably come when he will no longer be able to satisfy the desires of the capricious crowd, and the audience will forever turn away from him. What will he have but the regret of wasted time?
A true musician creates from the heart, therefore does not depend on changeable fashion and remains in people's memory not for years or even decades. Such a person can certainly say that he has fulfilled his destiny. After all, what is a calling, if not the ability to listen to your heart?
