American guys have recently attracted a fairly large number of domestic girls. Against the background of many Russian men, they are distinguished by stable income, self-confidence, opportunities to realize themselves and see the world around them. What are their main differences that manifest themselves with a closer acquaintance?
Introduction
Many Russian girls, once in the US, dream of meeting American guys as soon as possible. There are many explanations for this. It is always interesting to try something unknown, to be imbued with a different culture and worldview. After all, in the view of most classic American guys are tanned handsome men who play with muscles on azure beaches.
With closer communication, it turns out that something was really true, and something was nothing more than a myth, an invention that set a stereotype on edge.
After looking at photos of American guys, many Russian girls will want to spend at least one with themromantic evening. Here it should be noted right away that for a person who has just moved to another country or city, the appearance of an American boyfriend is a big plus.
Communication circle
The thing is that you will not visit the tourist places of New York or any other metropolis as a tourist with him. Most likely, you will go to some trendy new bar, besides, soon American guys begin to introduce their girlfriends to their inner circle, with their circle of friends, thanks to which you immediately make new friends and acquaintances. At the same time, Americans are as friendly as possible, especially with people who are out of their element, like most girls from Russia who come to the United States. So you're bound to get compliments on your excellent English, no matter how terrible your pronunciation really is.
Due to the fact that you will have a constant circle of communication in English, you will immerse yourself in the environment, improving your knowledge of the language in reality.
Besides, be prepared to be constantly asked about Russia. Your self-esteem will rise, because you will feel like a real expert, talking about things that are well known to every Russian, without exception.
Character traits
According to the photo of American men, it can be assumed that they are incredibly helpful and gallant. The most important thing is that it actually turns outso.
Some Russian girls admit that they begin to feel like they are in the 19th century, noticing such an appeal to themselves. Helpful Americans are always ready to fulfill any whim and wish of their girlfriend: go to a restaurant, order sushi, Chinese cuisine, go to a club to relax. They try to please in everything, trying to be as open and generous as possible.
Besides, don't be afraid to choose what you really want, they will actually enjoy satisfying your desires, and also feel free to speak up if you don't like something. One of the main points that distinguishes American guys from Russians is that the girl does not have to blindly follow her boyfriend. She always has the right to choose, she can use it, her opinion will be listened to.
At the same time, it is worth recognizing that some Russian women do not like this behavior, for whom it begins to seem as if the point here is the unwillingness of the American man to take responsibility and make decisions. Accustomed to other relationships, they refuse to decide everything for themselves. As a result, such couples often break up because the girl is used to her boyfriend telling her how to dress and where they will go tonight. Unlike Americans, a Russian man is used to dominating, demonstrating to everyone around him that this is his woman. And anyone who lays eyes on her, can seriously pay. In the United States, conflicts are most often resolved in a more civilized way. This is how American guys differ from Russians.
Get readytalk a lot
Another fundamentally different point will be that Americans, unlike many Russian guys, like to talk a lot on a variety of topics. The girl should be prepared that she will have numerous stories about his studies in college, jokes and anecdotes, memories of time spent with friends. As a result, it even becomes annoying for many when any opportunity to be in complete silence disappears.
What is the difference between American guys and Russian guys? They will never hide emotions in themselves, they will definitely share what really infuriates or irritates them. As a result, the combination of a talkative Russian with a silent American becomes an ideal.
Feminism
To feminism, which has been reigning in American society for several decades, today everyone is positive, perhaps many even like that it has appeared. After all, this means complete equality between women and men: it is not customary to pay for a girl in a restaurant or buy her a movie ticket, everyone pays for himself, no one feels remorse.
This is how American men differ from Russian men in principle. At such moments, many begin to recall with tenderness and nostalgia their relationship in Russia, when the girl has no worries, and not paying the general bill in a restaurant is considered below one's own dignity.
So girls need to remember that if the principle of paying all bills in equalparts scares you, you should avoid it. If you do get a guy who will pay for you on your first few dates, then this is most likely a strategy to win a woman's heart.
If you like a girl…
Interestingly, Russians and Americans have completely different approaches to the so-called hunt for a woman's heart. Our guys tend to be guided by the principle that you should never give up. They do this until the woman agrees to at least one date.
For example, if they want to satisfy their male ego, then obsessive courtship can continue for several months. Russians know very well that for Russian girls "no" often means "yes".
But the Americans in such situations retreat quickly enough. There are so many attractive girls in megacities that it is easier and more productive for them to switch to another object. In the process of courtship, Americans often pretend to be princes, which they really are not. It is important for them to create a good impression of themselves. In this regard, Russians are more honest, open and straightforward.
Marriage proposals
Even if a passionate romance flared up with an American man, you should not wait for an early marriage proposal. Here it is customary to get married as late as possible. It is considered the norm to go to the registry office, at least after 30 years. At the same time, Russians come to live in a place and get to know each other's parents much earlier than Americans.
It is worth noting that this also has a positive side, since no one expects a girl to run a household. Of course, if the desire to cook a romantic dinner or Sunday breakfast wakes up in the fair sex, no one will be against it. But this is not considered an obligatory quality that a girl who dreams of getting married needs. Therefore, in America, no one requires clean socks, ironed shirts from his wife. Firstly, men themselves are ready to take on some of the household responsibilities. Secondly, it is considered in the order of things to assign them to specially trained people. This is a developed network of laundries, cleaning companies engaged in house cleaning, food delivery companies.
Men appreciate much more in a relationship that a girl does not serve as a servant, but is a true friend and life partner, with whom you can always talk about something, and not follow how carefully she washes the dishes.
In conclusion, it should be emphasized that you can find your loved one among representatives of any nationality. Each conclusion, especially if it is made in relation to representatives of a certain nation, has exceptions that these rules are only ready to confirm.
Peculiarities of mentality
In conclusion, let's dwell on a few features of the mentality of US residents that you need to know about if you go to live in America. Be prepared for the fact that if you are praised, it ismeans absolutely nothing. Americans love to give compliments left and right, but it's often just etiquette and doesn't reflect what they really think of you.
Another moment may surprise even more. If they don't start arguing with you, it doesn't mean that they agree with you. The fact is that the culture in the United States is based on respect for other people's opinions and tolerance. From the first years of life, local children are taught to adequately relate to the fact that all people around are different.
From a clean slate
The important point is that your past will not matter to anyone. In the States, no one is judged for the mistakes they made in the past.
As a result, some even begin to abuse it. For example, like KGB officers who made a fortune on stories about their work in the USSR.
