Probably everyone in their school years had fun asking difficult questions. Of course, yes. Nothing without this. After all, curiosity is what accompanies us throughout our life path.
This is not about the usual questions like "what time is it" or "what's your name", but more tricky ones. Thanks to them, we can have plenty of fun watching how the interlocutor “rustles” his gray matter for a long and exhausting time, trying to find the right answer. Especially popular was the question about the wet bus driven by the driver Anatoly. Perhaps, only the deaf have not heard such a thing. In addition to fun, smart questions help us get to know our interlocutor or interlocutor better. Moreover, in the second case, the questions must be followed with the greatest originality, so as not to seem intrusive and not to discourage interest in yourself.
It will not be superfluous to make up tricky questions before the meeting. Thus, it is better to work out and come up with the smartest question that can get the most information out of the interlocutor / interlocutor.
How to ask a girl questions?
In order to make smart questions for girls, you do not need to be seven spans in the forehead. Here you can also completely surrender to your curiosity. The only thing -these are the right words.
For example, the obsessive question: "Are you ready for a serious relationship?". Having asked it, you firstly reveal your cards, which, by the way, is considered a failure. Yes Yes Yes. There must be some mystery in a man. Well, secondly, this is one of the really boring banal questions, which, to put it mildly, got her. Originality, originality and once again originality - this is the motto of the "rolling up" guys. So let's look into the folder called "Smart Questions" and get a decent option out of it. “How do you see your life in two years?” - this question will not seem banal or intrusive. He is full of originality, and the girl will not be able to see through his true purpose.
This is how you can ask all those questions that bother you, without revealing yourself at the same time, without losing interest in yourself, and moreover, seem like a very original young man in her eyes.
Examples of tricky questions for girls
1) What are your favorite places in this city?
This question will replace "Where would you like to go?".
2) If you were the head of the Ministry of Culture, what style of music/film genre would you ban? And which one would you instruct to develop?
Replaces tedium like "What music do you listen to/what movies do you watch?".
3) Where does your ex-boyfriend belong - in the gas chamber or in the electric chair? Or maybe execution?
Most girls will laugh at this. Few female representatives retain respect for the formerboyfriend. Most often - "they saw them in the coffin"! Well, with regards to the question, this will give an idea of \u200b\u200bhow she tolerates the breakup, how she relates to her ex. This will help to find out what she hates in guys, etc.
In general, examples of such questions can be given endlessly. The main thing is not to ask smart questions one after another. Better one, but original, than several, but crazy.
Don't forget that in addition to coming up with the smartest question in the history of a pickup truck, you need to be genuinely interested in the answer. Girls notice everything much better than guys, and if there is no curiosity on the face, then you will not hear a decent answer.
What questions should guys ask?
It would seem that asking smart questions to guys is a piece of cake. They do not catch the hidden meaning, they are liberated and they do not care what to answer. But it was not there. There are a lot of nuances that can change a guy's intentions from serious to ordinary lust. From genuine interest in your person to wasting time walking with you.
It would seem a common philosophical (and at the same time, according to the fair sex, having a hidden meaning) question like "What is the most important thing in life for you?" - will look very original. But no - he and his counterparts have already, to be honest, got it. Another thing is if a girl asks “If you win a million dollars tomorrow, what will you spend them on?”. In this case, the girl learns aboutreal values of your interlocutor, his character, etc.
By the way, there are also geniuses. Here it is already necessary to seriously move the convolutions in order to compose complex questions for the smart ones. It would be appropriate to recall that unrestrained stupidity is easily confused with genius. It doesn't matter what to say, it matters how.
Guys don't like it
Do not forget that many guys are afraid of their answers, afraid of making a mistake. Besides, they hate answering smart questions in front of witnesses. They also cannot stand it when their answer causes laughter. And they are also terrified of smart girls. All this must be taken into account when drafting tricky questions.
How to politely ignore?
It happens that you don't want to lose your interlocutor (especially if you have serious plans for him/her), and there is no desire to answer the question. What to do?
In order to politely subdue the curiosity of the interested person, it is enough:
1. Answer a question with a question. This is the old tried and tested method.
2. Answer a question with an anecdote or telling a funny story. And it is not necessary that they coincide in meaning. And avoid answering, and have fun.
3. Give a long answer by analyzing something. Start philosophizing over every detail. After one such answer, the desire to ask more questions will be completely repulsed by your interlocutor.
4. Fake fatigue, do not gesticulate. This is enough for the interlocutor to stop. You can, of course, add a touch of humor: “Turn off this microphone”, “The question is out”etc.
