When faced with rudeness, one always wants to respond to the offender. In a fit of anger, we often do not control our feelings and emotions. This can lead to a number of negative consequences. The easiest outcome of them is a quarrel, and the most negative is a fight. But, you see, to suffer yourself and stoop to assault just because your interlocutor is in a bad mood is at least stupid.
The most correct thing in such a situation is to answer the offender calmly and confidently, but in such a way as to put the boor in his place. To do this tactfully, without spending extra effort and energy, there are special preparations - bold phrases.
Who is this boor?
This is the aggressor, attacking and violating your personal boundaries. He tries to hurt the most painful places and at the same time avoid revenge. Scientific evidence indicates that such a person is, in fact, a miserable person with low self-esteem who wants to assert himself at the expense of those offended or ridiculed by him. Here's what you need to know when faced with a boor. Understand and forgive, or even pity an insignificant person or answerwith a witty phrase, smiling good-naturedly (not caustically!)
Examples of situations when anger cannot be contained
A decent-looking person who is a boor can be found at every turn today. Often the most common places of its deployment are the following:
1. Trading platforms. The favorite place of a bored, angry person is, of course, a market or a supermarket. In some cases, a pharmacy is popular. Firstly, you can go there as if on a tour and be indignant enough, studying the prices on the shelves. Secondly, knocking around in the crowd is also a nice thing for them. And all this, of course, is accompanied by unpleasant comments addressed to passers-by. By the way, shop assistants also like to be rude.
2. Public transport. The favorite place of all boors is the crowd. And where else can you enjoy the disturbances so much as in a traffic jam at rush hour? There you pushed, here - you. And as a result, for example, we have a heatedly screaming woman who splashes out her anger on everyone who tries to argue with her. And God forbid you outdo her in this honed craftsmanship.
3. Polyclinic. The state institution, where one must certainly stand in line, also knows impudent people. It can be an insolent person who will try to sneak out of the queue. But then he will receive a good verbal thrashing from people waiting in line, among whom boors can also hide.
4. Places of study. Adolescence is famous for the "painful" growing up of children. What is itshows up? Bold phrases addressed to teachers, bickering in the classroom at school, lyceums. Teenagers cannot give an objective assessment of what is happening. It seems to them that they already know everything, and adults are a little behind them. Unfortunately, rudeness and impudent phrases in the lessons of high school students are a completely common circumstance. The teacher can put the student in his place, gaining authority in his eyes, or not pay attention to what "outgrows" itself.
Daring phrases and expressions: examples
- It's true that we are all interested in discussing topics that do not concern us at all.
- You shouldn't expect good from a person who is difficult to cheer up.
- I know that crooks succeed, but not because of their own intelligence, as they believe, but because of the gullible people around. And to lie, just the mind is not needed. Working honestly is a skill.
- I'm terribly embarrassed to tell you this, but I'm not at all interested in how I look in your eyes, I'm sorry. I look great in mine, and that's enough.
- What level of development, such interests.
- You are so low in communication that, frankly, you are not even visible on the horizon.
- Please continue. When you say things like that, I feel so smart.
- Sorry, but you can hear a bad smell from your mouth.
- Can I get you another drum?
- With such tirades, just stand in the corner.
- If you're angry, you know you're wrong.
- In thisIn this case, your emotions are not identified with the conclusions of your thinking.
- If you don't like me, I let you go underground.
Daring phrases for girls
If a girl does not want to communicate with a guy, but cannot get rid of his annoyingness, or vice versa - she is struggling with his rudeness, perhaps she should use some phrases.
For example:
- Your time in my life is over. Hand over the pass and go out.
- If you love me it's your fault, all you can get is my smile.
- Darling, you are right - there has never been anyone like you, there is no more and there is no need.
- What I should - I know it's written in the Constitution. The rest - as I myself want.
- I'm doing great, so there's nothing to please you.
- You weren't in the movie "Clowns"?
- I'm not picky, just the best is enough for me.
What about guys?
Not only girls suffer from annoying boors. Let's look at some cheeky phrases for guys. They can use these statements in response to the rudeness of their peers:
- You're not pretty enough to be rude to me.
- If you say that, you probably have a spare jaw in your pocket.
- Kiss me with a running start, I'm standing behind a tree.
- Maybe you are the most beautiful girl in our area, but I'm also interested in talking with smart ones.
So, the first foundation is laid. Now you know how to respond to rudeness. But in no case do not parry these statements in front of an innocent person. Otherwise, you will be the boor.
