Today, more and more people are faced with the concept of "body positivity". But many, even those who use it, do not think about its meaning.
Definition
Bodypositive - what is it? This is a social movement, originally created by feminists. It is aimed at accepting one's own imperfect body and destroying negative opinions, labels, and stereotypes of thinking in relation to people whose appearance does not meet generally accepted standards.
Modern parameters of beauty, imposed by the media, are available to few. Few people can boast of their impeccable physique. The conditions to somehow meet the standard are tough. This is especially pronounced among teenagers. Problematic skin is not allowed, for girls - overweight, for men - hair loss, non-standard shape of the ears. Meanwhile, from TV screens and cinema halls, from the covers of magazines, slender, athletic, lean, dazzling heroes of our days are constantly shown.
When you look around, do you see a lot of these beauties or beauties around you? Not! There aren't that many. Even in people who are not overweight, you can find flaws in the figure. You can always do something if you want.find fault. So what? All together start to complex? Adherents of body positivity assure: of course not!
A bit of history: how it all began
You have to go back to history to fully understand what it is. Body positivity was created by feminists who agreed to tell the world that a woman is not a sexual object, but a person. Their motto was approximately: “My body is my business!”. The founders of the movement invite everyone to love their appearance as it is, without looking back at the world standards of beauty. Why did an idea so harmless at first glance have opponents? It would seem that everything is so well and rosy invented. But how much negativity about this. What a huge amount of dirt can be found on the Internet against an informal social movement. People, having learned about body positivist communities, immediately begin to brush aside the very idea with two hands, begin to shout: “Body positivity is bad.” Why? Let's try to figure it out.
Features and principles
Everyone can't be the same clones. Everyone in their own way and all together people are beautiful. Here, perhaps, one of the main explanations for what it is - body positivity. This trend that came from the West declared to the world, to society: “Beauty should be natural.”
Mila Jovovich was photographed on the cover of a fashion magazine with unshaven armpits. It was a strong call to support the movement.
A little later, Dove began to focus on the natural beauty of its consumer.
In general terms aboutproblem
There are a lot of people, and everyone is different from each other. The body standards that are constantly advertised on TV channels and in glossy magazines are just a small fraction of the diversity that exists around. Is it possible for everyone to become a superhero, an athlete, a graceful gymnast, a beauty with a wasp waist? Of course not. But everyone around insists that we need to change!
As a result: a lot of neurosis, depression associated with appearance. Especially the focus on an actual or perceived physical handicap is pronounced in adolescents and young adults. The peculiarity of the body can be taken as a vice, as a sentence for life.
Undoubtedly, this is a mental disorder. This is not only a consequence of external factors.
But the approval, praise of other people is one of the main priorities and incentives in a person's life.
An attentive person, having studied the idea of creating a society, will freely be able to understand what this movement (body positivity) is fighting for. The community teaches: love your body, accept yourself for who you are, because everyone does not have to be the same. All people are beautiful from the nature of their birth.
Distortion. Where did the kinks and distortions come from
Any trend, any idea can be distorted to disgust, inflated so that it becomes hated. Understanding this, one can imagine what a body-positive sect is. Here everyone understands each other and says that you don’t need to get slim and somehow strain, everything is in order anyway. You don't need to epilate. Being fat isfine. There must be many good people. Extremes cause rejection.
Grooming yourself is natural. Nature does not take care of man entirely. She needs help. No need to look for excuses for laziness or ignorance, distorting the original idea and claiming that this is body positive.
Medicine and body positivity
The words of doctors that extra pounds are a signal of diseases are being questioned. But these are, most likely, signs of metabolic disorders, the presence of diabetes mellitus, disharmony of the thyroid gland. Doctors are scolded, ridiculed and accused of discrimination. And this is an absolute minus of the movement, proving that not everyone managed to fully understand what body positivity is.
Usually a doctor focuses on medical indicators. For him, the main thing is the he alth of the patient, and then his beauty.
There are also metaphysical problems. They lie in the subconscious of a person. They also cannot be written off.
Of course, there are physical features that are not associated with losing weight or gaining the missing weight. This, for example, is a birthmark of an unusual color and shape, strabismus problems, the shape of the nose, chest, legs, and more. Is it only the services of a plastic surgeon that will help the unfortunate? Or are there alternative ways to solve appearance problems?
It's worth asking yourself: body positivity - what is it, is it just the ability to accept one's imperfections and live with it? First of all, it is necessary to decide in an adequate manner what to take onweapons from the informal movement.
What might come in handy
Here are some tips for self-acceptance:
- Positive acceptance of all the imperfections of your body.
- Translate disadvantages into merits. Write a list: why is it beneficial to stay like this?
- Reassess the characteristics of your own body.
- Create a list of your strengths - 15 points.
- Constantly remember them.
- Remind yourself more often that true beauty is not in a doll's appearance, but in the harmony of a person's inner world.
- Don't get hung up on individual parts of the body.
- Build a positive environment.
- Wear comfortable, beautiful, fashionable clothes that are comfortable to be in.
- Look at the information provided by the media through the eyes of an outside critic or observer. You need to see the idea of directors and editors who fulfill someone's orders to manipulate consciousness through the media.
- Do something nice for your body so that it understands that it is loved.
The creative side of body positivism
All modern psychologists urge you to love your body the way it is. The weight loss phase often begins with the fact that until you fall in love with yourself with excess weight, you will not be able to part with it.
Until self-love is fully manifested, it is impossible to achieve success in any area of life. Only the person who is able to accept any criticism in relation to himself can become the director of his life. "Know how to laugh at yourself, and then life will smile at you" -says the saying.
World fashion trends are changing and natural beauty is becoming more and more popular. Plus-size models have arrived.
Now you can see the most unusual photos with non-standard top models. This is Moffi, she has a clear squint, or, for example, Amazon Eve, whose height is 2 m 03 cm. And when asked how they get on the covers of magazines, the answer is that this is body positive. Most likely, photographers and designers want to expand the range of their creativity.
