Group sex and the Swedish family - how do these two concepts relate to each other? As it turned out, these are completely different things. A Swedish family is three people of different sexes who live together. There is certainly a sexual connection between them, as in any normal family, but it is due to the mutual feelings of the whole tandem. A threesome does not initially involve any warm feelings between … between everyone, in general.
How is it that people enter into this kind of relationship and agree to live as a threesome? Most often, the Swedish family becomes a way out in cases where, say, a girl cannot choose between two young people who she likes madly. In this case, she has a desire to keep both of them close to her, perhaps even to compare them. What to do?
Here you have to take into account several significant circumstances. The first and most important obstacle is that it is impossible to give equal attention to both beloved men (or women). The situation of rivalry for a partner (if this partner is really loved), who is in the center, is inevitable in any case. The outcome can be anything - up to the fact that you still have to choose between your favorite people, or they just leave.
Secondly, the Swedish family isdifficult psychological situation for everyone. Is it possible to sincerely love two people at the same time and share a beloved person with someone else? You can argue on this issue ad infinitum. But still, keep in mind: at one fine moment, nerves may simply fail.
Third. Do you really think that, having decided on a life together with two, you will not want to try something else and compare relationships with a lot of people? Let it be relative, but still freedom from “normal”, formal relationships is very relaxing. Where is the guarantee that the number of members of the union will not increase over time?
Another reason for creating a tripartite alliance can be blackmail: "If you don't want to live together, I won't keep you." Think about it, do you need a Swedish family for a couple relationship that is no longer in sight?
On the other hand, Swedish families are not without their advantages. Such relationships can be convenient for all participants. Under this condition, they can be quite strong and long.
Agree, it is much easier for two women to maintain comfort in a family nest than for one. And the man will be surrounded by a double portion of care and tenderness. Otherwise, the two breadwinners will be better able to provide for their woman. But this is not without pitfalls - warm friendships can easily be mistaken for love.
By the way, how do the Swedes themselves feel about the concept of “Swedish family”? It is interesting that in this combination they put a completely different meaning. In this country, this is the formcohabitation of a man and a woman not yet officially registered. Our civil marriage, to put it simply. At the same time, a woman can have children from different men, since the attitude towards such phenomena in Sweden is completely normal. And young people do not sign for one reason: divorce there is not cheap. And the funds are safe, and the nerves.
