The modern mom is constantly on the move. She has so much energy and strength! Sometimes it seems that nothing is impossible for her. Mom is engaged in the upbringing and development of her children, on her shoulders - life and home. Work and career are not in last place. After all, a modern mother understands that she must rely on herself and be financially independent so that her offspring are provided not only with basic necessities. She has a lot of obligations. And she's also a woman. She needs to be beautiful, fashionable, he althy and full of energy. What does a modern mother mean, what should she be and can she be called ideal?
Types of modern mothers, according to psychologists
Modern mothers are very different both in character and in their views. Each has its own rhythm of life. Psychologists believe that all of them can be conditionally divided into several types, each of which is given a clear description. What does a modern mother mean, according to psychologists? Let's find out.
The image of a modern mother who devotes herself completely to children and tries her best to patronizepsychologists compare their offspring with a mother hen. She is ready to devote her life only to her family. The desire to build a career, have hobbies, exchange for trifles is not for this type of mother. Very often she forgets to take care of herself and allocate time for rest. The main thing is to constantly and everywhere patronize your child, protect and protect from negative events. And no matter how old the offspring turned. Such mothers refuse to understand that the chosen method of education is not entirely correct. After all, the child grows dependent. Without approval and advice, he cannot take a step, a feeling of inferiority develops, the offspring is not able to make the right decision himself.
The second type includes psychologists of career-obsessed women. The rhythm of life of such mothers is frantic, there is practically no free time. They completely give themselves to the power of work, forgetting about communication with the child. To compensate for their inattention, they give him gifts and pamper him, not understanding and not recognizing that they will eventually grow up an egoist.
A mother who tries to raise her child in an authoritarian style of communication will not be called a wise psychologist. Although such modern mothers are a common type. From childhood, they instill in the child that the opinion of the parents is authoritative and is not discussed. The adults are right about everything. As long as the baby is 5 years old, it should be so. And it’s time for a 10-12-year-old offspring to have an opinion and know how to defend it. Of course, the authority of the mother should take place in communication, but this cannot affect the personality of the child and influence the formation of his character. Otherwise, he will grow up as a weak person with a lowself-esteem.
According to psychologists, there is a type of anxious mothers. Such women try to protect the child from everything in the world and are always there. Anxiety in their soul appears from nothing. The thought of a child tripping, falling and hitting their way to school is terrifying. Mom does not allow him to explore the world on his own. When the baby grows up, he will be afraid of everything.
What should be a real modern mother?
Psychologists are convinced that a modern mother should combine all the types in one person without fanaticism. She is caring and gentle, attentive and fair, listening to the opinion of the child, but not forgetting to guide him on the right path. She must learn to let him explore the world on his own and learn the lessons of life. Being engaged in education, try to instill the best qualities and reveal the talents and abilities of the baby. At the same time, he does not forget to take time for himself, monitors his appearance and wardrobe. Of course, mom should be he althy and strong.
The main duty of a mother
The purpose of a mother is to nurture and care for a child. It is very important in the first years of life not only to teach the baby to walk, eat, talk, but also to instill in him qualities that will help him live in society in the future. Of course, he should grow up he althy and strong.
A child, having been born, really needs constant mother's care and care. He doesn't know and doesn't know anything yet. Mom should open the world to him and help him learn to live in it. The baby needs constantattention. He is interested in everything, he wants to touch and taste everything. Mom can't relax. You need to be constantly on the alert to prevent trouble.
Finding career-life balance
Being a stay-at-home mom is out of fashion in today's world. She must be successful. Many women, after giving birth, try to go to work as soon as possible in order to build a career and realize themselves in society. In addition, a woman should be financially independent from her husband. Climbing the career ladder, many women give themselves completely to work, forgetting about their family and their children. To become a good modern mom, you need to clearly plan your day and learn to distinguish between career and family life. Plus, kids grow up so fast. The careerist, looking back, will feel disappointed that she set priorities incorrectly and quietly missed the most important moments in the life of her children, which alienated them from herself.
Fashionable and beautiful mom
A woman at any age wants to look beautiful and well-groomed. It is important for her to please not only herself, but also those close to her. Of course, a child walking nearby should feel proud of their mother's appearance.
Modern moms take care of themselves. Despite their busyness, they find time to visit a hairdresser, manicurist or makeup artist, and also try to look elegant and fashionable. Fashion magazines help to keep abreast of how to dress a modern mother in autumn or spring. famousfashion designers, exposing photos of their new collections in printed publications, often give recommendations on which figure this or that outfit will suit, talk about fashion accessories.
For a child, a mother is the best in the world. It doesn’t matter to the kid what her figure is, whether she is fashionably dressed, whether she missed the planned trip to the hairdresser. In the eyes of a child, she always looks perfect. But at the same time, it is important for him that the surrounding peers, seeing his mother, also consider her beautiful, well-groomed and fashionable.
He althy Modern Mom
A child will be fully happy if he knows that his mother is he althy. Women do not always seek help if they feel that not everything is perfect with their he alth. Often they endure pain to the last, and after starting treatment, they realize that it is not so easy to get rid of a neglected disease. Modern mothers understand how it is necessary for them to maintain a he althy lifestyle and be regularly examined by doctors. It is especially important to consult a gynecologist and mammologist. In our age, breast diseases and gynecological ailments are common problems.
Yes, and it's just not permissible for her to mope. She should be fresh, full of strength and energy, as in the photo of modern mothers decorating the covers of women's magazines.
Rest
Some men think that a modern mom can do without rest. What will she be like after a while, if she is busy only with work and caring for the household? No, a woman like no otherneeds rest. She needs to switch and make time for herself. For example, go chat with friends at a local cafe, visit shops to buy new clothes, or just take a walk in the park.
Joint family vacation should also be a mandatory rule for a modern family. The more time mom and dad spend with their child, the stronger their bond. The kid not only knows, but also feels the love of parents. And it is very important for him to understand that his family is strong and reliable. It is important for the whole family to go for walks, celebrate family events, visit places of entertainment and, of course, go on vacation together.
Sharing household chores
In the last century, it was believed that all housework should be done exclusively by a woman. The man was the main earner and, having come after work, he rested to his advantage. The fact that the representative of the weaker sex also experienced fatigue after a hard day did not bother anyone. But such rules are a thing of the past.
In many modern families, the distribution of responsibilities around the house has long been practiced. Work is not divided into women's and men's. Everything is done together and to the extent possible. And this applies to raising children too. Modern dads feed, play with their children, put them to bed to give mom some time to rest.
