What is kindness? Each of us thought about this question at least once in our lives. Kindness can be called a feeling of compassion for a fellow creature. In frequent cases, this is accompanied by sacrifice towards others and neglect of oneself. In other words, when a person does not know how to refuse or say “no” correctly, then for someone this is accompanied by a feeling of pity, someone increases his level of significance and self-affirmation through good deeds. Kindness can be selfless and pure. Although this is becoming less common these days. In general, kindness is different for everyone, but it is called for one main goal - to help another person.
Goals of Kindness
The selfless help to another person should be one of the goals in the life of each of us. Someone always needs a helping hand, and you need to extend it, because someday any of us can be in the place of someone who needs words of consolation, a good deed, an act. Therefore, if there is an opportunity to help, it must be done. Yes, and with a conscience, some will not have problems later.
Kind people
A kind person is one who, in relation to other living beings, performs actions that bring them some benefit. At the same time, the benefit is mutual, since a person has increased his level of significance, self-esteem by a good deed. And the one who was given a good deed, he helped in solving this or that situation.
Kindest soul man
Who is he? Are there still such people in our society today? The kindest person … So sometimes they call some people. This is how a benefactor is characterized who helps others and does not ask for anything in return. Of course, in order for others to respond like that, you need to do many good deeds and help more than one person. However, words of gratitude and happy eyes of people are worth it to help someone in need, if this is within our capabilities. Such actions give strength, energize, inspire.
What can I do to be kinder?
From the moment of birth, a child is pure and innocent, he is kind to everyone around him, and only upbringing, the example of parents and the attitude of those close to the baby make him good or evil.
Then the child grows, the character, attitude towards parents and people around them is formed. And in the process of becoming an individual, such a quality as kindness appears, or the absence of this character trait.
The mistake many people make is that they think that character cannot be changed. People say: "The humpbacked grave will fix it." However, this is notso. Temperament cannot be changed, because we are born with it, but character can always be changed. And therefore, if a person does not show kindness towards another living being, he should not be blamed. There may be various reasons for this. Perhaps he himself does not know how to help himself in this, how to become a kind person.
In order to become a little better, you need to understand yourself, understand what makes you be, for example, angry, aggressive, unfriendly, envious. Sometimes it is very difficult to do this, because "you will not find a speck in your own eye."
For example, many are driven to be evil by a financial disadvantage, a constantly drinking spouse, problems with a child or he alth, or envy towards another person, and so on. Having understood oneself, it is necessary to resolve this or that situation. If financial problems are to change jobs, to break up with a drinking husband, to establish relationships with a child and understand his behavior, you can improve your he alth by going, for example, on vacation. Of course, it sounds easy, in reality it is much more difficult, but it is within the power of each of us. You may need specialist help, but it's all for your own good.
Good qualities of the soul
Among the positive character traits, 12 good qualities of the human soul can be distinguished:
- benevolence;
- responsiveness;
- selflessness;
- honesty;
- cheerfulness;
- loy alty;
- compassion;
- willpower;
- reasonableness;
- mercy;
- wisdom;
- justice.
- Goodwill - from the phrase "wishing well", in other words - a friendly person.
- Responsiveness - willingness to help.
- Unselfishness - lack of desire for profit, personal gain.
- Honesty, or truthfulness, is sincerity towards another person in speeches, deeds, actions.
- Cheerfulness is an optimistic attitude of a person to everything: to circumstances and difficulties.
- Loy alty - loy alty to a partner, work, idea, etc.
- Compassion, empathy, sympathy - an emotional state, expressed in the understanding of other people's misfortunes.
- Willpower is a mental state in which a person is able to control his actions to achieve certain goals.
- Intelligence is the ability to make the right or correct decision.
- Mercy is a benevolent, caring attitude towards another person, a willingness to help.
- Wisdom is the degree of mastering knowledge and life experience and the ability to apply them.
- Justice is the right decision or the right action.
Good deeds
There are a lot of people doing good deeds in the world. A person who has done a good deed will always be remembered and thanked in his soul and in words. Because there are such people in the world, millions of children recover, accidents are avoided, the needy have a roof over their heads, the elderly receivethe necessary support and help, the animals find a home and loving owners. Good deeds cannot be counted, and a good person is one whose words and deeds are done for good.
What actions ennoble the soul
Really, what kind? A good person is such because he does good deeds. By these deeds, a person ennobles his soul, gives it a facet, endows it with we alth and breadth.
People say that everything in life comes back like a boomerang, so a good person will always receive only good deeds in return for his actions. Do not succumb to temptations and self-interest, doing something bad. It is necessary to think rationally and understand that everything will definitely return.
Varieties of kindness
Kindness comes in many forms. It manifests itself in different ways. Someone so kind that he wouldn't hurt a fly, but usually many people take advantage of the simplicity of such people, don't give anything in return. Such a person sometimes will not offer help himself, but if someone asks for it, he will not refuse.
There is kindness that manifests itself in actions. Especially if it is a good deed, i.e. if a person performs some kind deed when he is not asked for it, but needs it.
There is kindness that manifests itself in an affectionate word, wise advice. There is always a large circle around such people, since the problems are endless, good and wise advice is often needed to help in their adversity.
Disinterested kindness indicates helping another person. AtThey don't ask for anything in return for their actions. Such people are called unselfish. Such kindness is becoming rare in modern life, and even between family and friends.
Following selfless help comes selfish kindness. It doesn't have to be something bad. For example, one person turned to another for help, in return promising to thank him. It is a mutually beneficial relationship in which both parties are usually satisfied. This form of communication is not uncommon in our time. This model of behavior is manifested in all spheres of life: in kindergarten, educational institution, medical institution and others.
