Moral qualities are not something that is given to a person from birth. They are acquired by education or self-education. Is it possible for a person to live without moral standards embedded in character? He can survive, but he will not be able to achieve the love and respect of others. How to become an educated person, what exactly needs to be developed in oneself? Read more about it below.
Hard work
Moral and ethical qualities are different. One of them is hard work. A person who does not shy away from work always has weight in the eyes of society. What should be the job? It does not matter. Each individual must work to the best of his ability and abilities. If he can earn money by intellectual work, then he should work as an engineer, programmer, etc. If a person has not received a special education, he can always get a job as a driver, dispatcher, builder, etc.
The education of industriousness should begin in childhood. Someparents protect children. They do not force their children to work and argue that the child should have a normal childhood. But after all, if you do not accustom children to work, lazy people will grow out of them. Teenagers from the age of 14 can already go to work. Moreover, this is often practiced in families with a good income. In this way, parents teach their children to work. Diligence is a habit, and if it is not there, a person will have a very difficult time in life. In order not to be considered a lazy person, you need to work not only at your main job, but also at home. You should also help friends and relatives as needed.
Respect
The laying of the foundations of moral qualities occurs in childhood. It is the parents who must explain to the child what respect for elders is. Children may be shy and afraid of adults, but this feeling of fear should be eradicated. Replace it with respect. The child must understand the difference between themselves, grandparents. Older people have less energy and less strength. For this reason, they need help carrying heavy bags and giving up their seat on public transport. But politeness is not only something that a person flaunts in the form of behavior. Respect is shown in relation to the older generation. A child, and then an adult, must respect not only those who are older, but also those who are younger. Talking in “you” with all strangers is a tribute to the person. Do not neglect the simple rules of decency, so as not to be considered an impolite person.
Honesty
For the lack of moral qualities, others will condemn you and, as a result, they may stop communicating with you. To prevent this, you need to be extremely frank with everyone. Naturally, you should dose your frankness within the bounds of decency. The person must be honest. Lying is bad, but for some reason people forget about it. Today, lies can be found at every turn, so many people believe that this is normal. You have to try to be above it. Some people try to be honest, so they prefer not to lie, but to keep silent. Is this form of behavior considered a lie? Counts. Imagine that you are in court. You are being interrogated on some issue, and you withhold some important information. In this situation, it seems unacceptable. Why do you think differently in life? Honesty makes people's lives easier. They don't have to memorize all the lies they come up with, which helps them keep a face in front of family and friends, as well as strangers.
Modesty
In this age of the Internet, everyone wants to become famous. To do this, people try to flaunt their talents or cute appearance. But why, then, in kindergarten, children are still taught lessons of politeness? For the reason that a person must be well developed and be able to distinguish good from bad. Modesty is that character trait that makes a person mysterious. If a person does not flaunt himself, it is more interesting to talk with him. People who trysplurge, look too unnatural. Modesty adorns. She helps people succeed. This quality is especially relevant today. Thanks to modesty, a person can successfully stand out from his surroundings. People who behave too openly and excessively liberated, for some reason, are encouraged by our society. It is worth noting the simple truth that it is thanks to such personalities that people degrade faster and faster every year.
Self-criticism
A courtesy lesson in kindergarten and school should begin with teachers talking about criticism. It is not common for young children, but the older a person becomes, the more often he is faced with critical opinion. Few people can normally perceive a judgmental opinion about themselves or about their work. But you need to keep in mind that every person around you has the right to freedom of speech. For this reason, people can criticize everything they see. Every individual from childhood should become self-critical. What for? To learn to distinguish useful criticism from slander. Sometimes people around do not want to offend you or the subject of your creativity. They want to help and express their opinion, which may be competent. For this reason, it must be listened to and taken into account. And a negative statement that is not supported by any arguments should be learned to ignore. And most importantly - you need to learn not to respond to slander and not to take revenge in response. Each person must understand a simple truth, fight human envyimpossible. An envious person is an unhappy person who needs compassion and love.
Conscientiousness
The moral and moral qualities of a person have been developed since ancient times. Without them, people would not be able to exist in one society. One of these qualities is conscience. A person can live without it, but in this case it will be very difficult for him. The pangs of conscience that are familiar to every adult person are like an internal censor who says that a person is going the wrong way or is doing a bad deed. Without this inner compass, it is very easy to stray from the noble path. Therefore, it is necessary to develop this feeling in the child from childhood. How? If a child acts badly or ugly, he must not only be scolded, but also reproached, turning to his conscience. By doing this every time, the parents settle in the little man a censor who will guide the individual on the right path all his life.
Courage
What have people always appreciated in each other? Courage. But why then today this quality is not inherent in everyone? Courage and cowardice go hand in hand. Despite the fact that people began to flaunt their lives, they became more cowardly. They are afraid not only of what they really need to be afraid of, but even some trifles, like asking the seller in the supermarket where the right product is. Why is this happening? Courage and cowardice are qualities that are developed in childhood. They are developed by the child independently. Parentsthey can instruct their child, but they will not go to kindergarten or school instead. Therefore, the little man has to solve problems on his own, and sometimes this is not always possible. And if it does not come out time after time, the person becomes cowardly and is afraid to enter into an argument or fight. Such a person cannot protect either his own or others' interests. How do cowardly people live? Difficult.
Compassion
The moral qualities of a person are formed in childhood. Compassion is one of them. Unlike many others, compassion is required infrequently. But it is precisely about its presence that one can judge how kind or open a person is next to you. To receive sincere sympathy in our world is a rarity. A person does not know how to empathize with someone else's grief. People every year become more selfish, they move away from each other and think that grief will always bypass their house. But misfortune and happiness are two close friends. Therefore, sooner or later, both will visit a person. How to survive a difficult situation? Call compassionate friends. When a person talks about what worries and depresses him, internal purification occurs. But it happens only if the narrator sees sincere compassion in the eyes of the interlocutor.
Unselfishness
How to tell a good person from a bad one? Look at his values in life. If you ask a friend to help, and he asks you for some kind of payment, then the person next to you is unworthy. You need to surround yourself with selfless people. Such persons will never betray you. They will be able to stay close in sorrow and in joy. But those individuals who are around only when everything is fine with you are false friends.
The formation of moral qualities begins in childhood. How should a selfless person be raised? Mom and dad should ask their child to help just like that. Many parents promise their children candy or other bonuses for helping out around the house or walking the dog. This approach to education lays the foundation in the children's heart for the formation of self-interest.
Love for Motherland
A person must respect the place in which he was born. It is clear that the saying: “where he was born there and came in handy” is no longer relevant today. But still, patriotism is the feeling that should be embedded in the soul of a person. People who love their homeland will try to work for its good. Thanks to this, Russia will develop and grow rich. As a consequence, people will receive their dividends for love and work. Of course, you need to love wisely. In order for citizens not to be ashamed of the object of their adoration, he must be worthy of love. It is also possible to love something wretched out of compassion, but still such love is not worthy of respect. Patriotism must be present in the human soul as well as conscience or kindness. This should not be forgotten, because children are the future of our country, and it is on them that adults place their hopes.
