Always present yourself in the best possible light. Every girl has moments when she can and should show off her virtues to others: “Many people tell me that I have very beautiful eyes” or “I graduated from school with a gold medal.” If you want men to believe that you are really smart and beautiful, you need to show yourself, thereby confirming that you are sure of it.
If a man decides to give you a compliment, thank him by repeating it again for reinforcement. For example, a man said that you are beautiful, answer him: "I am very pleased that you find me beautiful." As soon as a positive idea about you reaches him, keep attacking him with fresh ideas. Let him know that you are a real diamond!
Try to demonstrate all your best personal qualities, tell as much positive about yourself as possible, but never lie or exaggerate your merits. Such statements are not only useless, but in the future they can even work against you.
What can you say about your own shortcomings?
Do you have any major or minor physical defect? If so, then perhaps some of the men you've been in a relationship withavoided this topic so as not to offend you. Others, on the contrary, pointed out your “defect”, and you asked them not to do it again. But if your disadvantage is 10 kilograms of extra weight, a wart on your face or lameness, you can’t get away from it, even if you keep silent about it. On the contrary, pretending that this flaw does not exist will only distance you from each other.
At the same time, you don't need to rush from one extreme to another and get hung up on your shortcomings. It will be a very big mistake if instead of showing your best side, you focus on a flat chest, big nose, crooked teeth or bad skin.
I want to show myself in a favorable light, or how to avoid mistakes
A man is looking for an alliance with a girl with whom he will forget about his problems. He wants to see in his woman a lover and girlfriend who will not fill his head with her shortcomings, fears and fears. So if you overload him with unwanted information about yourself, trying to show yourself and please him, then this will definitely lead to a break in relations.
Some women are used to showing their physical and psychological flaws without hesitation - for example, myopia, allergies, poor he alth or lethargy, presenting them as virtues. But even if a man loves fragile young ladies (although in most cases this is not so), then he will not take pain for a good personal quality.
Among other things, a man can use your words lateragainst you. If a woman claims that she is ignorant, stupid and ugly, then her man will probably believe her, even if it is a lie. Try to show yourself honestly, be sure to show the positive aspects of your character and appearance.
If your relationship has become serious, and things are moving towards a wedding, you and your companion should discuss such aspects of life together as financial obligations, sexual needs and relations with relatives who will come and visit you. But take your time and wait until your relationship reaches a serious stage before talking about such topics.
