Spring has come, blood rages, runs through the veins, there is an urgent need to get acquainted, communicate, love, take care of someone. The sad statistics says: there are more lonely people every year. For example, a guy and a girl are walking towards each other. Both are lonely, there is fire in their hearts, ardor in their eyes, desire in their bodies … They disperse, as they say, like ships in the sea … There was no “collision” … But they liked each other, and both even turned around after!
And everything could have been different: acquaintance, interest, sympathy, common friends and interests, first kiss, first night, first quarrel, truce … Bright, interesting, funny! Life is not in vain!
Eternal loneliness
The most common reason for such inaction is fear. Fear of being rejected, misunderstood, offended. Fear of being ridiculous. Self-doubt wins, and the person is left all alone.
This fear must be overcome. It is not easy to do this, it is everyday work. But receivedthe result will exceed your expectations, if only you learn how to make acquaintances correctly. Correct means original. Without these banal phrases: “Girl, does your mother-in-law, by chance, need it?” It is necessary to try to select original questions when meeting with the opposite sex. And even if in this case you will fail - do not despair! Why would you want to meet someone who has absolutely no sense of humor?
The most original questions for girls: how to get to know the mind?
Choose a pretty girl, and preferably two (if you are with a friend, then it’s not so scary), come up and ask: “Girls, do you have a pen?” Most often, a pen or pencil (even a pencil for pointing arrows at the eyelids) is found.
The next phrase: "Now dictate your phone numbers." From such impudence, girls usually get lost and give their phone numbers. Do not rush, wait a day or two, and then call, invite somewhere.
Follow the girl for a while, then call her and ask: “Girl, look, please, do I happen to have a hook on my T-shirt?” Regardless of the reaction, continue: “I’ve been following you for 5 minutes already, like a tied one - I probably got hooked.”
You can get acquainted in the queue. Ask a question to the girl standing in front of you: “Girl, does it bother you that a handsome and single young man is standing behind you?” As you can see, original questions when meeting people are much more productive than the usual ones: “Hi! Let's get acquainted?"
And the girlsmay I?
Gone are the days when it was believed that only guys should meet first. To date, all stereotypes have been destroyed, female emancipation rules. The girls have become more active. Why not? Therefore, for the note to the girls, we also picked up original questions to hit the guy in the heart.
Several examples
The ideal place for the next acquaintance is a stop. Seeing a handsome guy, you need to quietly approach him and pretend that you are actively looking for something in your bag. After some time, you turn to him: “Young man, will you help me? I can't find my phone in my bag, please dial me. He certainly will not refuse you. Thus, his number will be imprinted in the list of incoming calls.
Go up to a nice stranger on the street and ask: "Do you have a compass with you?" While he is moving away from the unexpected question, ask: “And the map for orientation on the ground?” After a negative answer, ask the following question: “Well, do you at least have a phone? Tell me your number." Most likely, the guy will admire your sense of humor and courage.
You can approach a lonely guy on a bench and start a conversation, as if you already know each other. When a guy says that he doesn’t know you, be surprised and ask with a smile: “Aren’t you Andrey?” Then apologize, say that you met a guy named Andrei on the Internet, agreed to meet in the park, but he never came. After a while, your phone rings.(preliminary contract with a friend). After talking a bit, you explain to the guy that it was your girlfriend who played you like that. And there is already a topic for conversation!
Go up to the guy on the street and ask him to show his hand. Then you begin to "guess": that he is destined to meet a beautiful girl, and they will love each other, and that they will be happy together, etc. Most likely, he will guess that you are talking about yourself. And as a "payment" for "fortune-telling" take his phone number.
Original questions for guys also work, you will see that the young man cannot resist you.
How to answer correctly?
You also need to be able to send off, so as not to waste time on a person you are not interested in. Therefore, even if he asks you very interesting and original questions, but you do not want to get acquainted, use the following tips. For example:
- "What beautiful eyes you have, girl!" - "I also have chicken brains and silicone breasts."
- "I already have 3 guys, I can't handle the 4th one."
- "Oh, won't you come with me to the meeting of the religious community? Give up everything worldly!”
You can answer a question with a question:
- "You smart guy, at least know what year Pushkin hanged himself?" (At the same time, check his knowledge of the biography and circumstances of the death of the great Russian poet.)
- "Do you think I'm better than you, or are you worse than me?"
Whatever the original questions from the opposite sex, always see for yourself if you needthis is an acquaintance. Lastly, remember that to be successful, you must look neat, smell good, and smile!
