In our progressive age, when everything about sex is known almost from the cradle, virginity for many seems to be something old-fashioned and unnecessary. And among adolescents, a virgin will be considered rather unpopular, especially against the background of more relaxed friends in communicating with the opposite sex. But if you ask the girls about their “first time”, then almost everyone will say that it was painful, unpleasant, not as cool as expected. What to do in this case? How to lose your virginity and not experience discomfort?
To begin with, in this article we will not talk about the right positions for sex, not about how to attract a guy and tell him that you are ready to give him your chastity. It will be about how to understand whether you yourself are ready for this responsible step, and about how to lose your virginity correctly so that later it would not be excruciatingly painfulphysically and mentally.
So you've decided to become an adult and have sex. Think carefully if you are ready. Each person has their own psychological age. To feel happy, he needs to behave in accordance with this age. Therefore, before you lose your virginity, think about whether you are ready for this internally. Will you make a mistake if you follow the lead of more developed girlfriends? Won't you do it just to be like everyone else? If at least one of these reasons flashes through your head, it is better to postpone this step: you are unlikely to get joy from the first sex, and spoil the impression forever.
Before you lose your virginity, you need to choose the right partner. Remember that the pleasure of sex largely depends on your emotional attitude towards the person. That is, with a beloved guy, this process will be much more pleasant than on the principle of "just to try." Undoubtedly, if you give away your chastity, then a person in whom you personally will be 100% sure that he is he althy, has warm feelings for you, will not flaunt in front of other people that he has entered into an intimate relationship with you.
Well, the process of losing virginity also deserves some preparation. It is best if this event takes place in a calm romantic atmosphere, in your or his apartment, in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, because the right attitude is already half the battle. Also, be sure to let your partner know thatyou are a virgin, and ask him to be careful and attentive to you, because the pain from the rupture of the hymen most often occurs precisely because of sudden movements. A warm bath taken together before this will help to relax and tune in the appropriate way. Of course, remember to protect yourself. Before you lose your virginity, be sure to bring up this topic with your boyfriend. Even the first time you can get pregnant or get infected with any sexually transmitted disease. It is unlikely that you are striving for this.
Do you know how you can lose your virginity yet? During the most ordinary cycling or while riding. In general, this is a simple matter from a medical point of view, but very important in terms of psychology. Therefore, do not rush into adulthood, and if you really want to, then do it with your loved one in order to keep only pleasant memories of this event.
