If you do not think about life and do not implement plans, then it will be uninteresting. Yes, perhaps comfortable, perhaps even bright momentarily, but the thoughtless construction of life sooner or later begins to strain a person with its senselessness. Sooner or later the question of the meaning of life will arise. Why do you need to live? Damn question. Because you can only answer it yourself, based on your feelings. How should one live so that the years are not lived in vain?
Is it bad to dream?
Deal with your dreams. The most important thing to know is that you shouldn't waste time dreaming. If you set a goal, immediately brainstorm and find ways to achieve it. It’s good to set goals in the evening and return to them with a fresh head in the morning. It’s not worth rejoicing ahead of time, because in this way your brain deceives you, replacing real happiness with dreams about it. Now you know about it. How should one live? Meaningful andwithout unnecessary imagining yourself in bright situations.
My own ruthless boss
Learn to manage yourself in time. In fact, you cannot control time, because it goes without your control, it cannot be returned. Today will never happen again, so start changing your life immediately. Tomorrow may not come at all, and every day should be such that it is not painful … ashamed. Every day your goals should be achieved, but you should feel a little dissatisfied.
About pleasures
Some say that "you need to live in a buzz." You have to be careful with this one. Because the impulsive pursuit of pleasure has ruined so many lives. Of course, life should not be bleak. But to get real happiness, you need to look for difficult ways. Communicate with nature, this will allow you to feel like a part of the world and feel the presence of the great near, even if you do not believe in God. You will be distracted from the hustle and bustle and realize your true values, and not those imposed by the modern rhythm of life. Of course, leaving to live in the village is not an option for most. But from time to time even the busiest urban professional can seek communion with nature.
Half-forgotten paths to happiness
If you believe in God, then the question “how to live” will not torment you much, it is enough to read good spiritual books. If you are “out of touch”, then you don’t know yet that in the book of Nikodim Svyatogorets “Invisible Warfare” the theory of scientific knowledge and criticalanalysis. And the Proverbs of Solomon amaze with the depth of the description of life. And it's not boring at all, the main thing is to set a goal - and you will find a lot of useful things for your life. By the way, now fashionable meditation is also practiced with Christian prayer, only you focus not on one mantra, but on a deep prayer text. So there are many things about faith that the average person is unaware of.
In general, only an active person can be happy. Especially happy are those who see the fruits of their labor - children who have become successful adults (teachers), beautiful houses (architects), warm sweaters (knitters). And even age is not a hindrance to activity. For example, one American on a rather large pension earned is seeking a review of death sentences. This is a very big stress, but the result is dozens of saved lives.
How to live? With lofty goals. Do not justify laziness with arguments about high, but make your life and others joyful.
