The French called them femme fatale. Women changing the world. Unfortunately, the changes are not for the better. Although the stories about some of these women are very interesting. In Russian they are called fatal. Usually they are cinematically beautiful, have a deep inner world and tend to change the lives of the men around them for the worse. A femme fatale is a muse on the contrary, however, also having a huge impact on the male psyche.
Beauty is not a must have
Are femme fatales always beautiful? No, an example of this is the famous Cleopatra, who was not a beauty. But femme fatale knows how to present herself in such a way that everyone around her seems unbearably beautiful. Fatal women are distinguished by a special charm based on confidence in their irresistibility. An example is Daisy in The Great Gatsby. The heroine uses tricks, like a quiet voice, to get attention. Yes, femme fatales are beautiful, as a rule, but not this.makes them fatal.
Why is there so little femme fatale in the world?
There are a lot of beauties around us. Why does not everyone use their external data and do not become a legendary woman? Because in order to obtain the “special” status of an antimuse, one also needs to have powerful analytical thinking. Which in itself is also found among women, but less often than physical attractiveness. And in combination, these two qualities are very rare. However, beauty and intelligence are not enough at the same time. Each femme fatale goes through an ugly duckling stage in which she has a negative emotional experience. Perhaps a girl is not humiliated for her appearance, but a painful wound remains for life: this is how a femme fatale is born. Photo of a real femme fatale? Any photo of Marilyn Monroe.
Merlin's Tragedy
She was not a fatal beauty in the movies, but in life she had all the signs - beautiful, smart (hiding from men, read very difficult authors), and with experience of "ugliness" in adolescence. This is what allowed her to influence the men of the presidential family. And even, according to rumors, to be strangled by the president's brother. She played on male sensuality consciously. For example, she could tell the president at the reception that she had no underwear on. In addition, she had the talent to build relationships with men: she knew when it was better to say, and when to remain silent. She brought much suffering to men, but she herself eventually died mysterious anda terrible death.
The path of light
Should I strive to become a femme fatale? No, it is better not to try to embark on this path, the path of destruction, revenge and broken hopes. Of course, the pride of many women would be flattered to be the cause of the suffering of many men. But it is better to choose the "path of light" - and become a muse that inspires men to change their lives. Building is always more interesting than destroying. And revenge for children's grievances is not worth it to mock a man innocent of these grievances. The muse beauties are similar to femme fatale in general, the only difference is in a kind attitude towards the world and men, such women know how to forgive and love. And it is precisely such that personal happiness awaits.
We always have a choice. You just need to do it in such a way that you will not be ashamed and insulted later. Find your path in love and influence. Femme fatales are often unhappy themselves.
