Domination - is it the desire to subdue or take responsibility?

2024 Author: Henry Conors | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-02-12 02:47

Dominance is a quality of a person's character, in which there is a desire to be above others and occupy a dominant position. Regarding interpersonal relationships, it can be male and female. According to psychologists, both one and the other form of domination is normal, although this is more characteristic of the male sex, while the nature of women is submission and service to their chosen one. In this article, we will take a closer look at what dominance is and how it manifests itself.

Man and woman: who is the boss?

Why is the man originally considered the main? This is due to the fact that his mind, in comparison with the female, is more consistent and “cold”. That is, a representative of the strong half of humanity is less susceptible to the influence of emotions, which are always secondary for him. Therefore, the man talksmore he althy. From all this, we can conclude that dominance is the power of someone who is less emotionally involved in a relationship and is not influenced by various feelings.

But there are situations when a man becomes dependent on a woman, so to speak "under the heel", relaxes and gives her the reins in a relationship. Such unions have a right to exist and are found all the time. How correct is this? A woman by her nature does not seek to control, and even more so a man. Her goals are to create a family and take care of loved ones, only then can she feel happy. However, due to various life situations, female dominance in relationships also arises.

How not to fall under the "female heel"?

With the words of Alexander Pushkin that if you love a woman less, then there will be more return on her part, it's hard to disagree. After all, the fair sex always dream of strong, confident, pragmatic men next to them. How to dominate a woman?

1. Self-esteem of a man should be at a high level. He is simply obliged to personify strength, confidence, stability, only then he is guaranteed success with women. Important BUT: you don’t need to raise your self-esteem at the expense of a weak and fragile girl.

2. 

   Domination is autonomy. The independence of a man is one of the most important qualities. Show your woman that you can do just fine without her and the relationship, if in any waysomething doesn't suit you.

3. Domination is a manifestation of male power. Not literally, of course. There are times when, during a quarrel, a girl throws rude words, sets conditions, tries to manipulate. A man must hold firm, not be led to such provocations. After all, as soon as a woman understands that you are "under the heel", her respect for you will quickly disappear.
4. You really need to admit your guilt when it takes place. It is not worth making constant concessions and indulgences, even if you value your soul mate very much. Don't be afraid to show that you are capable of leaving so that a woman realizes that she can lose you.

In European countries, for quite a long time, some men have ceded their power, and Russian female domination is quite common. Good or bad, it's up to you and your partner to decide. Indeed, in a relationship, the main thing is understanding, love and consent!