How long have you faced the difficulty of choosing? How did you solve it? Surely, thinking and weighing well. But what if there is no time for it? If the situation rushes at you like a herd of wild horses, and you need to do something right now or be under the tread of circumstances. There is no time to think, it is impossible to have time to analyze. This is where the code of honor comes in. How to use it in everyday situations, so as not to lose face?
Code of honor
As we have already understood, the code of honor is what helps in situations that arise all the time. For difficult problems that require a certain approach and careful analysis, such postulates are hardly suitable. But in everyday life, we often face small tasks, of which there are many. And how is it possible to solve big questions if we are exhausted by the heavy load of small and unresolved problems?
The code of honor is whatwhat are most often guided by various military associations. They should be focused on military affairs, and not distracted by everyday difficulties. However, if you think about it, then all of us have our own code of honor. Everyone has beliefs according to which they act in everyday life, even if they themselves do not realize it. This means that we can use the experience of others to take a closer look at and perhaps even revise our own values.
Bushido
Samurai - the legendary warriors of the Land of the Rising Sun. The rumor about their discipline and devotion does not subside to this day. Restrained in worldly affairs and insatiable in the thirst for battle, loyal to the overlord to the very end. "Bushido" is the code of honor of the samurai. It is the most popular set of instructions and a source of military philosophy. Its observance was necessary, because when enemies point their swords and spears at the temple of brothers in spirit, then no dust of everyday life should cloud the gaze of a true samurai.
We will look at a few of the basic tenets of the Bushido code of honor that can be best applied at this time.
Think before you speak
You should weigh every word and always ask yourself if what you are about to say is true.
The eternal rule, repeated over and over again by different people, firmly stands at the heart of "Bushido". Lies were perceived by the samurai extremely negatively. We canuse it to be more careful with your words. Am I sure that what I'm about to say is true? Do I want to say something good or bad? And is it really necessary to say it? In other words, sift the words through the "three sieves".
Be humble in the affairs of life
It is necessary to eat in moderation and avoid promiscuity.
It's worth taking this not literally in terms of the physical. We should avoid the extremes not only of our natural needs, but also psychological ones. Gluttony, extreme laziness, excessive licentiousness, immoderation - all this is not very good. However, psychological extremes are no less pernicious. Intense anger, overwhelming sadness and crazy joy can bring with it many bad consequences. According to the samurai, the "middle path" should be chosen.
Live like there's a sword over your head
In everyday affairs, remember death and keep this word in your heart.
This postulate should not be taken as eternal thoughts about death and constant sadness. To keep the word of death is to be aware of it and to be prepared. After all, what colors will the world sparkle with as soon as we realize that we can leave here at any moment. Previously invisible things will become beautiful, because now they are so easy to lose. All life is presented as only a single moment in which you need to live now, otherwise the chance can be easily missed. And is it worth it to spend precious time onunwanted things?
Don't forget those you have taken into your heart
Samurai should be not only an exemplary son, but also a loyal subject. He will not leave his master even if the number of his vassals is reduced from one hundred to ten and from ten to one.
Of course, this is about loy alty. Such a topic is "blurred" in the argument. After all, so many beautiful words have been said about her that anyone will immediately name a couple of statements. We will perceive this rule as the importance of choice. After all, if it is necessary to be faithful to the very end, then choosing a comrade-in-arms is not an easy task. In whom can we be so sure that we swear infinite devotion? This question is definitely one that requires careful consideration.
Be humble in the face of weakness
The Falcon does not pick up thrown grains, even if he is starving. So the samurai, wielding a toothpick, must show that he is full, even if he has not eaten anything.
Restraint. Here is the lesson to be learned from this quote. Control of one's own body and mind is learned through practice. Do not show your weakness, no matter how hard it is torn out - the vigilance of a warrior. After all, you never know who will be the "opponent" in front of you.
Find a resting place for your soul
Near his home, a samurai can build a modest tea pavilion in which to usenew kakemono paintings, modern modest cups and an unvarnished ceramic teapot.
It is unlikely that anyone needs a tea house now, although it can be a pleasant pastime. In this quote, we will look a little deeper and understand under the house a place of personal comfort. This modest tea pavilion is a place where we can be calm and free from worries, a corner where you can take a breath and calmly think about your life. Everyone absolutely needs it, even if it is only deep in the soul.
Result
Of course, in places the image of the samurai is strongly romanticized. In fact, these are ordinary soldiers in the service. History reveals the facts of the war crimes of the soldiers of every nation, and the samurai were no exception. The code of honor is more about mental and physical preparation than about the battles themselves. In war, many simply try to survive, and in such conditions the only law of survival is "the strong eat the weak." After all, regardless of the severity and beauty of the code, people always remain people.
For us, however, the knowledge of such a military philosophy can help in "small daily wars". Bushido or any code of honor of an officer - it does not matter, because most of them were created specifically for their time, and most of the postulates were dissolved in the course of history. Let's not live forever looking back, but use the knowledge of the teachings that have sunk into oblivion to create our own codes of honor.
