Why do women care more about men's qualities? After all, it's no secret that the "powerful" of this world also dream of being like the famous heroes of novels and movies, who conquered the whole world with courage, nobility and other gentlemanly qualities.
Moreover, it is enough for men themselves to associate themselves with them, while women certainly need to instill these bookish qualities of heroes in their chosen ones.
For her
Women are sure that the main feature that they themselves should possess is beauty. But men attribute to the necessary qualities, among other things, the ability to make money. In addition, their chosen ones must also be beautiful, generous, smart, strong, courageous.
The thing is that the concept of "ideal man" for women and men has a different meaning. So, women equate the qualities of an ideal man withthe status of a good husband. In their opinion, the good qualities of a man are those that they like. He should help around the house, prefer spending time with her to hunting or fishing, in no case should he spend money on friends. It is best if he gives them to his wife for a new dress. Paradox. A woman has been looking for a good husband all her life, focusing on the best qualities of a man. But as soon as she finds him, she ruthlessly destroys all those qualities that she once saw in him. Once the chosen one conquered her precisely with gallantry, and today the politeness shown by him in relation to an unfamiliar lady becomes a weighty reason for another scandal. So maybe, dear ladies, you should initially look for an obedient husband, and not an ideal man?
Male look
According to the beliefs of Adam's descendants, a real man is a reliable friend and a man of his word. Decency, purposefulness, devotion, courage, honesty - these are the qualities of a man, based on which the father raises his son. Men's opinion on this matter is more based on high moral principles, although following them is not always typical for modern representatives of the stronger sex. In addition, they know better than women what qualities of men attract beautiful ladies. But the selfishness inherent in them by nature prevents them from improving their character for the sake of their loved ones. A man sincerely believes that you need to love just like that, and not for some quality.
And, unlike a woman who, at least at first, tries to veil some of her shortcomings, a man is open. Loveme the way I am,” he says with his behavior, which women are not able to understand and appreciate. Although honesty and openness are not in the last place in their list of requirements for the chosen one.
From the above, one conclusion should be drawn: the ideal man is the image that women draw for themselves in order to find a worthy life partner. And the stronger the love for a partner, the more obvious the positive qualities of a man become. As soon as the feelings cool down, they mysteriously dissolve into the everyday life of a joint life. It turns out that the ideal man for a woman is the one she loves. So, in order to meet ephemeral parameters, a man can only reciprocate.
