The word "passion" is quite common today. It is not newly invented, like, for example, "laser" or "computer", or abstruse, rare. which can raise a lot of questions. But still, this word, like any that characterizes the realm of feelings, has many shades, and it is worth figuring out which ones.
What a feeling
What is passion? The explanatory dictionary of the Russian language Efremova gives the following interpretation of this concept: “passion” is a strong feeling that occurs on an instinctive level. This is a strong passion, craving or inclination for something.
According to Dmitriev's explanatory dictionary, the meaning of the word "passion" is defined as follows: a strong feeling, physical or sexual attraction of one person to another. It is also a he althy interest in some occupation, profession.
Ushakov's Explanatory Dictionary defines the term "passion" in a similar way. What is passion? This is a very strong sensual attraction that occurs in a person subconsciously, instinctively.
Thus, after conducting a literary analysis, we can confidentlyclaim that it is still a feeling.
Seven worst human passions
Also quite often this term is used not to describe attraction to a person, but to describe his secret desires that cannot be curbed.
Such passions include the seven deadly sins of humanity. Many people know this legend. The list of sins includes: pride, gluttony, greed, laziness, envy, anger and lust.
These seven feelings and actions are classified as passions because they are quite difficult to contain. Each of us has been angry many times in our lives, sometimes unconsciously jealous, or too proud of ourselves, gluttonous or lazy, this is a self-evident fact. And this is another criterion for understanding what kind of feeling it is - passion.
Passion and love in adolescence
All people in life sooner or later know the feeling of passion. And very often it happens that they confuse it with love. Why is this happening?
Especially often this happens at a young age, when young people and girls for the first time begin to experience feelings for the opposite sex. Then teenagers confuse passion with love and often confuse themselves with this. After all, teenagers are more likely to experience passion. What are feelings at this age? In this case, they can be compared with love. It's like pink glasses. It's not about sexual attraction at all. Girls fall in love with boys and boys fall in love with girls. But they begin to experience a real feeling of love at a more conscious age.
"Adults"passion
If we talk about adults, it is worth noting that passion in men and women manifests itself a little differently.
Men in this matter are more quick-tempered and reactive. If a man experiences passion for a woman, the object of his desire, then he is very quickly excited, blood rushes to the brain, figuratively speaking. A man is trying to use all the methods and ways available to him to satisfy his desire as quickly as possible.
But when a woman experiences passion, her actions are more measured. Women tend to think a lot about different things and do analysis. Therefore, as a rule, a lady achieves the object of her desire less impulsively, gets excited emotionally more slowly, tries to keep the situation under control, restraining her passion. That such a phenomenon can lead to negative results - she guesses.
Of course, sometimes the opposite happens. People are different, and everyone can behave in their own way, uncharacteristically, regardless of whether it is a man or a woman. This is influenced by factors such as emotional and physical he alth, temperament, a person's lifestyle, or events that have happened or are happening in life.
How to recognize passion
As in adolescence, adults also tend to confuse the concepts of "love" and "passion". What is love in adulthood is already becoming more clear. That this is not only fun, an eternal candy-bouquet period, but also constant work on oneself, compromises, concessions and mutual understanding. But passion is a feeling morethoughtless and irresponsible.
And you might often think that, having an irresistible craving for a person, we love him. But you need to clearly understand that love is the spiritual closeness of two people, and passion is a feeling based on desire.
There are two basic differences between these feelings:
1) Manifestations of feeling. Of course, there is no relationship between people, a man and a woman, without passion. But there is a difference. If relationships are built on passion, then in such a tandem, as a rule, people do not take into account the desires of other people, but only their own, since passion is a selfish feeling.
2) Transience. Passion arises quickly, and is able to quickly "disappear" depending on various factors affecting a person. In most cases, when a person achieves what he wants, passion fades. This is its difference from love. But sometimes it will happen that passion develops into a stronger and deeper feeling.
Thus, everyone can understand and frame the concept of “passion” a little differently: what is passion, craving, falling in love, and what is true love.
