It is possible to distinguish a fake from gold, it is easy to identify a counterfeit bill, but it is much more difficult to recognize a person. But if you have clear criteria for what a real man should be, then, getting to know him better, you will definitely say who invited you on a date: a fake or a nugget.
Any woman dreams of seeing a real man next to her, some kind of prince on a white horse or a knight in armor. But the fabulous image does not always coincide with reality, and you can run into anyone. But girls really want to meet the ideal candidate for life partners.
In this article we will tell you about what it means to be a man. In other words, what qualities should a representative of the strong half of humanity have, according to women.
Masculinity
Perhaps the most important quality. After all, it is precisely this that reveals the essence of a man, combining in him courage, honor, nobility and fortitude. One who has this quality is very close to the image of his own ancestors.
Responsibility
According to women, a man should be responsible. Of course, in ancient times this was easier. He killed the beast, brought the prey and again run to hunt - this was what the worker consisted of.day of our distant ancestor. It seems that everything is very simple, not like in the modern world, where a man has to bear much more responsibility. It is necessary not only to protect and feed your family, but also to “turn on” your head in certain situations. And this is quite a difficult task.
Keeping your word
There are people who say one thing and do something completely different. And there are men who refuse words for the sake of self-interest. You can't do that. If a real man gave a word, then he will keep it, even if it does not bring him benefits. These are the representatives of the stronger sex will always be valued and respected.
Courage
A man must be doubly brave: for himself and for his companion. It is unacceptable to hide behind the backs of your mothers and wives.
Honesty
Not all representatives of the stronger sex have this quality. Most lie even to their wives. Of course, you can deceive others, but definitely not yourself. The main thing is to be honest with yourself.
Integrity
You could say it's synonymous with honesty. It is a very rare quality among the male population. It is unlikely that somewhere you can find a 100% decent man. After all, he must protect, feed and love his own family, not cheat on his wife, respect the elderly, not commit bad deeds, never cheat, etc. This image is too utopian. And if you meet such a man, then you can put him in a museum as a valuable and rare antique.
Kindness
This quality shouldbe inherent in every member of the stronger sex, especially if you have your own family. Without a good attitude, it is impossible to engage in the upbringing of children. Of course, this does not stop some, but what will become of their offspring in the future?
The main sign of kindness is respect for old age and love for animals. In general, in order to find out the “true” face of a man, you need to find out how he relates to “striped and mustachioed”. Also notice how he talks about his own parents or grandparents.
Hard work
This is one of the qualities that reflect the essence of a man. It closely echoes the responsibility, which we wrote about above. A man should not be lazy, because he is the source of resources (money) for his family. In addition, there are many household chores that a woman is not able to cope with. You have to be a man and help your chosen one, and not lie on the couch with a can of beer and watch TV.
Dedication
One of the most important qualities. Any man should know what he wants to achieve and what he lives for. It can be different areas: hobbies, sports, career, work. If there is no goal, then the man simply goes with the flow, and all his free time is consumed by surfing the Internet, TV, drinking, lying on the couch, etc.
Sense of humor
In general, it is very difficult to live without it, and it is also quite difficult to conquer a woman, resolve a delicate situation, etc. In today's reality, a sense of humor is not just important, it is vital. As one saidsatirist: "If it wasn't so funny, it would be scary."
Um
For many women, it is the mind that reflects the essence of a man. If it is not enough, then it is unlikely that a person will make a good head of the family. Raising children, solving household issues, making money - all this fully or partially falls on men's shoulders. And in the organization and calculations of all this, the mind plays a paramount role.
Sexy and attractive
Many believe that men should never be attracted by their appearance. This is an erroneous opinion. Certainly they should! But this is not about pretty faces, but about real male sexuality and attractiveness, when a woman walking next to her feels both safe and pleasant.
Intuition
Although it is not so developed in men, nevertheless, each of them should have some kind of sixth sense, suggesting that a woman needs help. The main task of the representative of the stronger sex is to console, protect, help in difficult times, or just be there.
Mutual Aid
A well-known actor in his interview said: "I do not divide housework into men's and women's. If necessary, I can sew on a button, and wash, and cook, and change a child's diaper." That's what a man can be! And this is absolutely normal. Moreover, it should be so. If earlier women were engaged exclusively in household chores, now they work on an equal basis with men. And they can also be late at work. So a real man won't sayreturned after a hard day to his wife, that he was too tired and would not do anything.
Mobility
In the high rhythm of modern life, a man simply must be mobile and mobile. Sitting in one place, you can not feed yourself or your own family. And only parasites and lazy people sit in their pants.
Independence
Many women answer the question “what is the essence of a man”: “independence”. That is, in the ability to solve absolutely any problems without anyone's help.
Tidiness
This does not mean metrosexuals, who, apart from their appearance, do not care about anything. We are talking about the elementary rules of personal hygiene and minimal care for your appearance. Remember, people always meet by clothes.
Own opinion
A man must have unbreakable principles and his own opinion on any issue. Otherwise, he will either become henpecked or already is.
Devotion
At the moment, this quality is more typical for swan relationships than for human ones. Although ideally every man should be devoted.
Love
To parents, chosen one, children, acquaintances, relatives and not only. Love for others and the whole world … because without it it is difficult to live and be in harmony with oneself.
Conclusion
So, the essence of a man is expressed in the presence of the qualities listed above. Although they are not a panacea. After all,every woman has her own understanding of what a real man should be.
